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Why Indian girls want to do sex only after marriage?

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There are plenty who want sex b4 marriage, but not so many who give in to those urges before marriage. This is because of the double standard when it comes to men and women. A woman will be told it's ok by a man until he's tired of her. Then he'll brag and her name will be dragged through the mud by others(even if the guy says only good things about her morals and such), due to this, when it's time for marriage, no man would want her due to ego; and his family wouldn't want her due to respect. Because for a woman, how she is as a person is tied to sex, and if she satisfies desires and people know, then she's considered unfit to marry a good man. Plus, when a girl has sex, she wants to share, it's a need for both sexes...but she's not allowed to..but probably needs to more so than a guy because girls usually tie emotions to sex, and this makes them vunerable, and they need to get it out. But this type of openness only gets her in trouble in the eyes of everyone. So she is advised just to keep her legs closed 'til marriage...or face the consequences...and relizes that it's easier that way.
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  • Ap by Ap
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    I was just reading all the answers which u got for yr question...and ..I m really disappointed with the most of the answer here as it seems they are dont even beleive what u asked....anyways...most of the girls in india want to have sex after marriage only as they are INDIAN, and thats whats our culture is..and it also same for boys and girls ..but ..unfortunatly things are changing this days in metro cities & also some big cities of India ..young generation not really intrested in heritage of indian culture which is unfortunate .
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  • The Tribune by The Tribune
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    The one highly vauable asset a woman has , is her "virginity"!
    Foce of circumstances or a wrong step on her part, could have made her fall in love with a person.
    If the person is in 'real love' with her, he could easily let her stick to her resolve. But the fellow is having 'infatuation only and wants to deflower her, he is selfish and mean.
    The man who compels a girld to yield to his carnal pleasure, not only offends her modesty but also guilty of losing his virtue too!
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  • drrr07 by drrr07
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    its traditional for them. and as far as indian girls go,the greatest gift they can give their husbands is their virginity. besides even if they did change, very few indian boys will ask someone they love to have sex before marriage. i 'm not saying that no one asks and all that ,but the norm is sex after marriage.
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  • b ranch by b ranch
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    WOW may b U R clueless or maybe you found a girl who wants to save her self for her husband just to share something that no man has ever touched!! That would be nice but not likely ..... now is that American Indian or R U talking about the country India.. the real question is why don't you find out by asking her why she wont ****** U
  • Passions by Passions
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    Not all girls want to do this but those who do probably have respect for themselves and want to save themselves for marriage. So that when they do have sex their doing it of rthe right reasons and the one person who they want to spend the rest of their life with.
  • fcuk795 by fcuk795
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    not all girls want to do sex after marriage bro...only few girls want so and reason behind dat may be bcoz if her sex news become popular than she is considered as a characterless girl in our society...so they r afraid of doing sex before marriage...
  • lala by lala
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    because we don't want a child before marriage. we don't trust a person easily about this matter. this is a pretty sansative matter>
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  • Franc by Franc
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    our girls are brought up on a good dose of 'chastity' stuff that they tend to develop a guilty conscience after pre-marital sex..thatz why they go on boasting their virginity even if they had lost it at the age of 15
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  • weapon4massdistruction by weapon4m...
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    who gave you that misguiding information i think you dont have a girlfriend first of all find one 4 urself then your question will be why indian girls demand soo much of sex before marriage loollllllll...............
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  • nancy by nancy
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    because they r scared that it may cause problems in their life
  • Shawez S by Shawez S
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