It is true that when love hurts, it hurts to the heart. It does not care to care.
Today most people, particularly most of the boys and girls take love as fun. They do not have clear concept of love. They try, compete and contest with anybody for acquiring love as a “trial and error method”. Love is not like that. Neither love is fun or sports. It is not as simple as like taking a cup of tea. It is much more than that.
Love is a celestial element of feelings of passion between two persons (boy and girl, man and woman). It grows after knowing and understanding each other, sharing and caring each other’s feelings. In fact, there is no established formula to acquire love. Love requires vision and approach towards realities of life. In love both should be acceptable to each other. In true love, lover does not expect anything in return, except love.
The important element in love is confidence. Confidence gives security and trust. Trust is most powerful and important aspect in love, attraction, admiration and marriage. When trust is lost everything lost.
But when somebody gets hurt and pains they feel that in love people get cheated only, although that is not the case. Love does not hurt anybody. Love is a feeling of passionate, emotional, romantic desire and attraction towards a person which is based on confidence, faith and trust.
If love hurts or ends in pain then it was not a real love. Real love never hurts, never pains nor it becomes a cause of suffering.
When somebody is hurt due to love, then that love is based on a weak
foundation like
• Lack of understanding,
• Infidelity, disloyalty, betrayal.
• Non-confidence,
• Disrespect.
• Insecurity.
• Distrust and suspicion.