Am I Pregnant? Please suggest me something friends...?

Question

Hi Friends !!
I am in a very big problem,will u please please pleaseee help me out???????

Actually,today,in the afternoon,I and my Boyfriend were together in my room,suddenly he got excited,and tried to had sex.at that time i also didnt objected.
he was not able to insert his penis fully inside my vagina,infact,he was just trying to do it, but i dont know how,my vagina started bleeding very badly.....
I just wanted to know,that i wont be pregnant by this na?????
coz he was just trying to do it,and was simply rubbing and pushing his penis,but never inserted it fully.

I am just an 18 year old girl,and i am really very much afraid to tell my parents about this. and since i live in a small town,i cant even go to a gynaecologist.
shall i take any contraceptive pills???
please please please help me,i will be extremely grate full to you !!

Note :I have just ended my periods 3 days ago,but it still bled,and i am having pain in my stomach now,and i cant understand whats happening????/

Additional Details

hello Dear "baby"
R u sure i wont get pregnant?
he didnt loose sperms inside me,and infact,we never reached the climax,but still,i want to know,why is my vagina bleeding,and why am i having pain in stomach??????

please help me,i am damn confused and frightened......

For more details,i am a virgin.
and,if he didnt inserted his penis completely,how can he break my hymen????/
and my stomach is still aching very badly...

I know we must use a condom,but we made very much sure that we wont have sex now,and he was just rubbing,and i think the head of his penis was also not fully inserted.

what pills would u suggest just in case.....?????

Answer 1

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Are you a virgin? If you are then you're bleeding because he broke your hymen, it's completely normal.

The chances of pregnancy are low if he didn't ejaculate, but there's still a small chance some sperm got inside you from pre-come, and if you finished your period 3 days ago you could be fertile now. So if you want to be sure you don't get pregnant, you need to get Plan B/the morning after pill to stop that from happening. It would also be a good idea to either go on the birth control or buy some condoms in case you decide to do something like this again. x

Edit: the hymen isn't that high up in the vagina so he wouldn't have to insert fully to break it. If you want to take a pill now to stop getting pregnant, you'll probably need to see a doctor and ask for the emergency contraceptive pill. In the UK you can buy it at a pharmacy without a prescription, but in most places you need to see your doctor first.

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Asker's Comment:

Thanks a lot for ur advices dear friends !!
but,as Lucinda said,that hymen isn't so high in the vagina,i just want to say here,that he wasn't able to enter inside my vagina even a little,as my **** is very very tight. he cant even finger me !!

anyways,thanks for ur replies.

Answer 2

Highly doubtful you are pregnant sweetie. i would get on contraceptive pills and use a condom if you plan on having sex int he future.

Answer 3

See a doctor. If you don't want to be pregnant you have 72 hours to take a morning after pill.

USE A CONDOM in future if you do not want to end up pregnant or with a STD.

Answer 4

There is a very low chance of you being pregnant but to make sure if you miss your next period take a test.

Answer 5

u aren't virgin now If you are virgin then you're bleeding becoz he broke your hymen which is absolute normal. If he didn't ejaculate , then u might not be preg but there cud be a little chance where some sperm remained inside u 4m pre-come.You are fertile now due to ur periods passed 3 days ago.Just take a contraceptive pill in order to be on safer side but within 72 hours. But if the same happened again then, it's completely normal.
But do take precautions from next time.