When you love someone is it important that they should love you back?

Question

if yes, then that will be like putting conditions on love!!
if no, then where is that pain coming from?

please explain!!

Answer 1

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Theoretically/ideally - No!
Practically - yeppies!!

look! you love someone,right [I mean just imagine the situation], and he/she doesn't love you. Then whats the point loving that guy/girl? I mean there's always lots of people around, who will gift you with love in turn of love, right? They deserve it. And what you are doing is a crime. God [or whatever you say], has gifted you with a unique ability, that is you can love. Not many peope are capable of doing this [believe me, some people get indulged in a relationship, just because they want that "committed" tag], that makes you one among a selected few. And you are wasting your ability by offering it to someone who doesn't need it.

Rather give it to someone who really needs it. God bless. :)

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nice answer, agree!!

Answer 2

Conditions on love?
Love has alway's had conditions!
To love someone is great, but if they do not show the same back, what's the point?
You gotta understand that without them loving you nothing will ever happen between you............
Conditions of love are like the truths of love.
When in love-No cheating
When in love-Be truthful
When in love-Be romantic
When in love-You do all the things you never believed you'd do!!!!!!!!!!

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Married and in love with my wife for 9 years!!!!!!!!!!!!!
People that are against marriege-that's your objective, but people that really enjoy and understand what being in love means-You know what I mean!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

when your in love with someone, its the best feeling in the world when you love them back.
it sucks loving someone who doesnt love you back.

why would you want to waste your time loving someone, that doesnt love you ?

Answer 4

wen u love some one its nt imp tht they shd luv u baq toO , iv been in a same situation b4 .. tell her u love her and respect her and her nt lovin u doesnt change tht fact .... be open wth her wat if she realizes tht you truly love her and she changes her mind .. be open for other interested girls too so ur nt bond to someone ... i hope u like ma suggestion ... peace

Answer 5

no.... m in the same situation.... nd i dnt think tht the person u love, shud luv u back.... if u luv tht person, u wish to see him/her happy.... no matter wht!