Why does my life seems an ugly thing?

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i am a young boy but to me life seems to be very ugly and cruel.
it is because i have too much of body hair .......it makes my skin look messy n ugly even to myself.

i always try to hide my own body from myself.......when ever i see myself i feel like crying.........other boys with normal hair just enjoy life , i avoid girls also , (but i wish i could also be atleast a friend with them, but its just a wish).......why do i have to live such a curse????

Answer 1

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hello h, let me tell one thing.i love hairy people.when i see hairy people my all emotions wakes up with full speed.it is the sign of sex .if you are at my side just imagine................
all are not the same. remember.
it is the sign of something.accept and enjoy. be positive .

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Answer 2

body hair on men can look nice if carried with cofidence and maintained a lil bit.

Answer 3

go out and play you sound like a loner it just a phase it will pass away

Answer 4

be happy with wat u have and if its making you uncomfortable then shave it ..whats the big deal about it
if you wanna be frns with girls then talk to them they like confident people..so be confident thts it life beautiful trust me

Answer 5

u r so foolish ! thinkin like dis !!!! enjoy ur life as u r ...nt every1 thinks like u so be positive in ur life

Answer 6

ya know if you don't like the body hair you can always shave. but really what you got to do is accept your body for what it is. no one is perfect and all those pictures you see are not how most of the world looks. my man is hairy i got no issues with it. not all girls will.
stop caring so much about what your peers think and do things because you want to. in the end what you think is the important thing. so shave if you want to or not. be careful if you do shave though. when the hair grows back it will be uncomfortable in a few places.

Answer 7

U are unnecessarily getting worried. I will tell u small example. look out. express yourself. make the world think about you. most of live happily. What's created by god can't be changed. If u have that much problem then go to saloon and remove the hair. or go to a beautician remove the hair permanently with laser.

But my suggestion why do u mess with a thing that is created by god.its natural. the world is small. People don't have time to think about themselves. There is not thing like curse. birth itself is boon enjoy when u r there on this planet and leave these small things. If u r that much worried then there is always a treatment for it.

think positively every thing will be OK

Answer 8

It is a natural phenomena. You need to think of good things. You read Vibrant Rose in hubpages.

Answer 9

many more things in life will make you feel this way

Answer 10

Haha I am the same way except not all depressing (no offense). I have a lot of body hair but I don't really care. I know some girls don't like it but trust me, if you meet a girl and you both really care for eachother, she won't care about the hair. She might ask you to shave some of it, but it's really not that big a deal. Besides, you're a guy, guys have hair. It's dumb that media puts the idea into people's heads that it's wrong for a guy to have hair. It's like saying that it's wrong for women to be anything more than a size 2 with D cups lol. Stop worrying what dumb people think and enjoy your life.

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Answer 11

You know I think you just need to shave.. Girls do it all the time. I think hair is gross anyway.. So get rid of it..

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..dont like to be hairy.

Answer 12

Its not a curse, just try shaving it off.