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  • What are the best and worst parts of being a parent?

    Obviously this is in your own experience and your own opinion. I just want to have an idea of what I would be getting myself into if i had a child

    And for anyone who has chosen not to have a child. What do you feel are the positives and negatives of your choice?

    2 AnswersFamily1 month ago
  • Is a baby worth risking my personal goals in life?

    I know no one can really answer this question but me. What I am really hopping for is a bit of outside prospective. 

    My partner dropped the baby bomb on me a few days ago. Until recently neither of us were sure if we wanted a child. 

    He makes more money then I do so it would only make sense for me to take a step back from my career for the beginning of the child's life. I work in a high end salon and am working up to making good money. Eventually with hard work I could do VERY well.

     I am trying to figure out if I want to have a baby. There are many factors to think about.

    1) I would be set back in my career that I am very driven and passionate about.-I have a 5 year and 10 year plan of where I would like to be2) 1 of my big career plans involves editorial work that would require a lot of travel.3) We have a rescue dog that is not good with kids. I refuse to abandon her.4) IDK if I would be a good mom.5) I don't want to chose to have kids just because he wants them. If there is a chance I will regret it and resent him.6) My mother is autistic. This has put me in the parental roll with her in a lot of ways including putting many holds on my own goals. So in a way I feel like I have already been there done that.7) I'm pushing 30 and that isn't to old to have a child. I do feel that it's now or never if I am going to. because my career goals and aspirations also have an expiration date and I don't want to have to do threw things like building a client over and over again.

    5 AnswersOther - Careers & Employment2 months ago
  • What are some good Alliance chats to join in WoW classic?

    Currently I joined 

    Lfg  and hordepatrol. Are there any other chat groups that are good to get onto? Earlier I was positing for help as horde were camping by my corpse but to no avail. I had do just give up questing in that area. So I was wondering if there is a better chat that has more ppl on if or if hordepatrol is the best 1.

  • Does the IUD still work when you are on antibiotics?

    I am on the IUD and heard that birth control does not always work when you are on antibiotics... I was wondering if this was true on the IUD aswell. Or if that is false all around

    4 AnswersWomen's Health1 year ago
  • Should we wait to move in together?

    My partner and I have been seeing each other for about a year now and have been together for 9 months I am 27 he is 28 we both own our homes and rent out rooms in our homes to cover our mortgage.

    We almost moved in together over the summer but his new roommate was allergic to dogs and I have a dog. Then when his roommate moved out we were going through some growing pains and realized we couldn't see ourselves living together at that moment so we decided to figure out our sh!t and take a step back for a week and after that we talked everything out and our relationship has been super strong since but that's only been a month and a half.

    The last few days my partner has brought up living together again a few times and I keep using praises like if we did and if that happened as a way to show him I don't know if it's a good idea yet and I haven't had the chance to talk with him about it yet.

    It would be smart for us economically especially since I am going back to school for a career change in a month so I will be living pretty frugal the next while but idk if it's the best for us in our relationship...

    I don't want to rush into talking to him and close that door and lose out but I also don't want to rush into us living together and damage our relationship.... Thoughts?

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years ago
  • What should I do about my male roommates?

    I am a 27 year old woman. I have a 40 year old and a 57 year old male roommates. Over all they are fine but both of them walk around in their boxers or just a house coat and I never complain...

    Once I had the bathroom door open and I was covered with a towel and my 40 year old roommate was about to walk in then freaked out went to his room and couldn't look at me for like a day... and today I thought no one was home and I needed to get a bowl to do a face mask after my shower and I was wrapped in a towel and my 57 year old roommate said "holy smokes she's walking around naked" I immediately felt the need to defend myself and say "I didn't think anyone was home"... then he proceeded with "that's ok I have seen many naked women".

    Why is it ok for they to wonder around in boxers but if I quickly run threw the house in a towel it's a big deal... it makes me really uncomfortable in my own home...

    What should I do...

    24 AnswersFriends3 years ago
  • Where can I find the song Einstein's brain by lance morrison?

    I know it has to be somewhere online but I can't find it anywhere! I have been dying to listen to that song no stores carry his CD, I times does not have it...

    I can order the CD ON Amazon but that will take a week....

    2 AnswersLyrics3 years ago
  • Where can I buy hair extentions in calgary?

    I can do my extentions on my own and don't want to pay a stupid amount of money to get them done. Where can I go to pick up the hair to do it on my own at home?

    1 AnswerHair3 years ago
  • Part of the pad of my dogs foot got torn off. Any tips to help it heal?

    I put poly on it and wrapped it so she couldn't get to it.... anything else I can do? How long should it take to heal?

    1 AnswerInjuries3 years ago
  • What should I get him for valentine's day?

    We are not in a relationship we are only dating but he asked me to be his valentine. We are going to dinner tonight I want to do something nice for him but I don't want it to be to much.

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • Going to see a guy I am dating perform tonight and another guy I am dating wants to come! What do I do?

    They both know I am seeing other people and they both seem fine with it and both understand that i dont want a relationship.

    I don't want to tell him oh you can't come cause a guy I am dating will be there but I don't want to lie to him either. Right now he just knows I am seeing a show with a few freinds.

    But what to i do if he asksaid to come.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago
  • How do I deal with this dating problem.?

    So I am going out to see a show tomorrow and a guy I am seeing is in one of the bands and another guy I like seems to want to come to the show. How do I tell him I can t invite him without hurting his feeling.... I like both these guys a lot

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years ago