let me start from the top .. i have a 15 month old son and when i was a month pregnant my boyfriend was murdered . i have started dating agin and i was with someone for almost a year . i never realized how bad things were till now ..
he took all my money, said horrible things , took advantage of my feelings for him .. an incident occoured and i was no longer seeing him but we were still "together" . i broke up with him and met someone new who is absolutely great with my son and treats me the right way and hes an absolute sweet heart . my whole problem is that i am still talking to my ex on the phone and hes severely depressed . he cried to me every night , swears that hell change and wants to kill himself .. it went as far as people wanted to put him away in an institute. i havnt been completely clear with him about my new relation ship because im afraid of what he might do . he keeps asking me for a sceond chance , and im confused because i really do care about him, but the new person im with is to good to let goo ..
what should i do ? avoid having contact with my ex ? leave the new guy because of my feelings for mr .wrong ? help me its been killing me for a month now .
im thinking that i was only with him because i was at my lowest point . i had just lost everything and my sons father and me were engaged . so maybe thats y i stuck around but i want some more opinions because things are hard for me and i cant really choose in my current mind state . i know the answer i just need reassurance. someone please tell me what i should do ..