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  • When a man wants to travel internationally with his gf, does that mean he's in for the long haul?

    Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years and hes not one to be quite expressive about his feelings. however recently he's been wanting to travel with me abroad. to me this is a really big deal and i feel this says something significant about our relationship, but i wonder if im being too much of a "girl" and reading too much into things.

    i'd like a guys perspective on this...he's 30 and im 25 just fyi..

    what would make you want to travel with your gf long distance? and be on a 12-13 hour flight?

    i'd appreciate no smart aleck responses..im just trying to understand the male psyche..obviously not all men r alike but y'all would give me a good understanding..

    (i dont want to ask him cz i dont want to make it awkward and for him to never mention anything like this again...because i like it)

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • My boyfriend says above all else, he feels "comfortable" with me...is this particularly a good thing?

    He's not one to tell me he loves me every day...or much at all..he doesn't really express his feelings or tell me how much I mean to him, or even that he misses me...though he might do. Initially I found this very, very strange but I have grown accustomed to it and I actually am alright with this..as long as he shows it in his own way, which I have learnt to understand....that's all that matters to me..

    He doesn't find it very important whether or not I understand him, but what is important to him is that he feels "comfortable" with me...as a background he's quite a picky individual and is quite moody and I seem to deal with him very well....he actually doesn't get along with alot of people...he likes to challenge people and sometimes tends to rub them the wrong way...but that's just because they are not aware of his demeanour and/or sense of humor..

    we're going on our third year together and just out of curiosity i'm wondering what are some thoughts on this...if a man says he's comfortable with you....is that a good thing? i hope this doesn't mean he's just settling for me....he's 30 years old and I am 25..

    8 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • My boyfriend says above all else, he feels "comfortable" with me...is this particularly a good thing?

    He's not one to tell me he loves me every day...or much at all..he doesn't really express his feelings or tell me how much I mean to him, or even that he misses me...though he might do. Initially I found this very, very strange but I have grown accustomed to it and I actually am alright with this..as long as he shows it in his own way, which I have learnt to understand....that's all that matters to me..

    He doesn't find it very important whether or not I understand him, but what is important to him is that he feels "comfortable" with me...as a background he's quite a picky individual and is quite moody and I seem to deal with him very well....he actually doesn't get along with alot of people...he likes to challenge people and sometimes tends to rub them the wrong way...but that's just because they are not aware of his demeanour and/or sense of humor..

    we're going on our third year together and just out of curiosity i'm wondering what are some thoughts on this...if a man says he's comfortable with you....is that a good thing? i hope this doesn't mean he's just settling for me....he's 30 years old and I am 25..

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating8 years ago
  • Windows unable to reinstall after doing System Restore?

    I had this issue of malware, so i decided to restore my laptop back to factory settings....however it says windows is unable to install and it doesn't do anything else...my laptop didn't come with a backup CD or Windows 7 CD.......i'm really lost, what should i do?

    if i invest in a windows 7 CD, will it work?

    2 AnswersDesktops8 years ago
  • Windows unable to reinstall after doing System Restore?

    I had this issue of malware, so i decided to restore my laptop back to factory settings....however it says windows is unable to install and it doesn't do anything else...my laptop didn't come with a backup CD or Windows 7 CD.......i'm really lost, what should i do?

    if i invest in a windows 7 CD, will it work?

    1 AnswerSoftware8 years ago
  • What is there to do in Soho, London for a date on a Friday evening?

    There are cinemas and theatre's but what else is there to do? We don't drink so clubs or pubs aren't really ideal for us...

    also...are there any recommendations of which shows to watch at the theatre?

    3 AnswersLondon9 years ago
  • What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday?

    i painstakingly made him a ferrari 'friendship bracelet' cuz i know he loves ferrari...its not girly at all...did my best to make it masculine enough with the red and white...but i feel its not enough....any ideas?

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Is it sexy to be put up against the wall while having sex?

    i'm quite the newbee at having sex and trying new things...and i'm just curious....what should I be doing when my boyfriend do this? what are some fun things i can do to spice things up? i'm shy but... i know once i feel comfortable i go crazy haha so i'd like some fun tips and tricks guys like their girls to do!!! :) thanks

    p.s no i'm not a teenager but i decided to lose my virginity to the right guy :) and i have........

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • why does my face go red when i get angry?

    i'm wondering what happens for my face to get so red? i mean does my blood pressure suddenly increase so much that my face gets red? it gets red when i'm angry...i dont shout or say anything to anyone but it just gets really red when i feel angry inside if something has happened or i find something out.....couldn't find any good answers online so thought i'll ask you lot! :)

    2 AnswersPsychology9 years ago
  • What are some fun things a mother and daughter can do together in London?

    besides shopping, what else can i do with my mom? everything i can think of consists of a lot of walking and my mom is getting to the age where she can't really walk for too long and it's not always possible to find places to sit....any suggestions?

    4 AnswersLondon9 years ago
  • What outing can I have with my boyfriend after work in London?

    Besides a movie or going to the theater..or eating out...what else is open and what could be fun to do? any ideas? especially on a Friday

    2 AnswersLondon9 years ago
  • Should I include a SWOT analysis in my business plan?

    I think I should, but should it be for the Industry I'm going into? Or for my business? Or for both?

    1 AnswerSmall Business9 years ago
  • Why does my boyfriend like seeing me on the webcam?

    like, a lot of the time he'll just ask me to turn on my cam...not for sex but just to turn it on....n we aren't talking but....i wonder why he asks me to turn it on? i dont mind...but was curious

    any thoughts?

    7 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Rather personal and intimate question :$ please only ladies answer?

    So ladies, I am a rather well endowed in the chest area, however I have an issue which is quite embarassing...when I do a lot of activity, like walking around the city, running etc.....i sweat a lot underneath my chest.....like it gets 'wet'....and it's embarassing when i want to get intimate with my boyfriend...

    do any of you ladies have quick suggestions how i can get that area fresh quickly and smelling all lovely?

    really appreciate all your advice in advance! :)

    4 AnswersOther - Skin & Body9 years ago
  • What perfume smells do GEMINI men like?

    my boyfriend doesn't like the perfume I use right now...it's a pretty strong Jasmine smell with other undertones..i asked him what perfume he likes but he can't tell me exactly unless we go shopping for perfumes lol we will soon but i wanted to know if there is a particular smell gemini men like...those of you who have already figured it out! :)

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Why do guys think when their girl friends are sad, sex will make us feel better?

    Every time I'm going through something really tough, my boyfriend is really sweet and his way of comforting me is sex...I don't refuse because it's really sweet coming from him but there are times I just want him to hold me...but I was wondering...why do guys think sex is what we're looking for? or is it that guys aren't good with words so they can only express how they feel about us through sex?

    any thoughts guys? :) would love to get some insight from our male friends here!

    15 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • How can I ask my bf who he talks to on Whats App without pissing him off?

    I'm really curious to who he talks to on Whats App...and I need to know, but I haven't asked him yet because I don't want to piss him off or feel I'm a nosey girlfriend. It's just he's on there at strange times of the day...

    any girls have a nice way for me to bring it up in a conversation for him to tell me on his own without me asking him directly??????

    would appreciate some feedback :) thanks in advance

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • Why does my boyfriend give me his stuff to hold when wenr out?

    Like when we r out...shopping...he'll give me his coat or jacket to hold while we r walking around and shopping. or he'll give me his shopping bag for a while...

    Anyone have any thoughts??

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 years ago
  • I need to lose weight, but my back injury prevents me from lots of exercise?

    2 years ago, I suffered a very bad back injury which was mainly in the lumbar region, but this effected my fitness dramatically. I used to go to the gym and work out and although I was never skinny, I was toned and looked good. Over the past 2 years I haven't been able to exercise or do the activities i used to do before which used to help me stay toned like dancing for a long time, etc.

    I know I should see a doctor for this, but i was wondering if anyone had any useful tips, perhaps if they have been through a back injury themselves, as to how I can do effective exercise which wont hurt my back, but help me see results as well?

    thank you for your help in advance!

    4 AnswersDiet & Fitness9 years ago
  • Do you consider 'tshirts' to be an essential part of your wardrobe? Whether you are a guy or a girl?

    do you find yourself having atleast 5 tshirts in ur wardrobe or more? or do you not wear tshirts at all?

    please state your reasons as to why or why not u wear tshirts...

    also....do you have a specific style of tshirt you wear? graphic prints? plain? funny phrases??

    and which kinds of tshirts do u prefer....the fitted kind or looser ones...wud u prefer fitted graphic tshirts or loose graphic tshirts?

    AND LASTLY

    when you BUY tshirts...how much are you willing to pay for them? :)

    please be as detailed as possible...and don't forget to tell me whether ur a guy or girl :) it'll help me a lot!

    thaaaanks in advance!

    1 AnswerFashion & Accessories9 years ago