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  • Should I cancel my Appointment to the Dentist?

    So this upcoming Friday I’m “supposed” to get my top wisdom teeth extracted. 

    I’ve been hearing that most dentist aren’t taking patients in unless it’s an emergency and mines not an emergency extraction.

    I feel like I should cancel it until  after we are able to fully go out.

    I have braces and I know my ortho appointments are being cancelled this month because of COVID-19. Long before we knew this would have happened my Ortho said I needed my wisdom teeth out but it was like it was an emergency. 

    Should I just call my general dentist and cancel? Or should I first call my Ortho and ask him what he thinks since my main focus is my braces treatment just to see if having been that everything is getting pushed back if he thinks it’s necessary or not?

    Also, I have a feeling she won’t like it. I went in for an exam that I needed and she literally told me 6 times she could extract them right then and there that it would only be 10 minutes and that I didn’t need anyone to be with me that I would be fine to drive back home. 

    5 AnswersDental4 months ago
  • Do men like women who look older? ?

    I’m 27, and I’m currently single.

    I’m 5’2” Brunette with a nice figure and face I’ve been told. (As far as how I am as a person I can say I’m actually really nice, people tell me I have a great personality).

    The thing is... I’m 27, but I get told ALOT I don’t look my age. I’ve been told I look much younger. I’ve gotten 19-22. I pretty much have a baby face I’ve been told. I actually love doing my makeup, and getting dressed up but I also love just wearing jeans cute tops and converse. 

    I even notice people my age and I feel as if they look much older than I do, and my friends tell me that I look much younger than other 27 year old girls.

    I get hit on and stuff like that most of the time by guys in their early - mid 20s. I’d like to meet an older guy but I feel it’s harder for me because I look much younger?

    Are men more attracted to women with features that make them look much older? Is this why I probably have a hard time with guys

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating5 months ago
  • Will I be single forever?

    The last relationship I was in was about 4 years ago. I have gotten to know guys and I have had my fair share of adventures but Im Ready for a relationship.

    When I don’t get ghosted it’s that it’s bad timing or it just doesn’t go anywhere. I have tried the whole dating app thing. In March of last year I met a guy and we went out 4x and he just disappeared he was in grad school and working but I felt like he could have said to me he didn’t see it going anywhere, and in November I met a guy it was going great until he just disappeared. I feel that as a result I second guess everything a guy does or says and it sucks.So I go out, not all the time but I do here and there I work full time, I work out at the gym..I’ve been told I’ve got the “complete package.” I know I’m very social, friendly and people tell me I’m pretty (even though sometimes I don’t think so).I’m 27 and I’ll be 28 in two months. And I think that I have been trying so hard that it makes me think I’ll end up alone.Am I over reacting or am I just going to be single forever?I Am honestly about to give up It sucks getting excited about things and then they don’t work out. 

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating5 months ago
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    Do you think “Beauty Marks” are attractive? ?

    So I have a beauty mark like the one that actress Blake Lively has. I also have another ( see where I put a black dot on her face in the picture). Are they considered attractive? 

    Mine are flat, they’re not bumpy, they’re both just like a flat freckle. 

    There have been times where I want to have it removed it. Haven’t done it yet or don’t know if I will. A lot of people have told me that I shouldn’t remove them because they make me who i am, and that I am an attractive woman.

    I guess I have always been insecure about them. As I was young I never really noticed it, it was more towards middle school growing up. I’m 27, and well I have more freedom if I wanted to have them removed. I don’t know if I’ll do it.  Just curious about what other think about these beauty marks on faces. 

    12 AnswersOther - Beauty & Style8 months ago
  • What’s your opinion? Is it okay if we don’t talk everyday? ?

    met a guy online about 5 weeks ago.

    He had asked to hangout that weekend but because I wasn’t too comfortable at the moment, I said no. We didn’t start hanging out until 2 weeks ago, and we saw each other for a second time this past Sunday.

    Well, since we started talking it’s been 5 weeks. I guess it’s been almost an every day thing. Here and there we won’t talk. He just texted me last night we’ve exchanged a few messages throughout the day. Is it normal to not always talk to eachother?

    Last time we talked before this was when we hung out on Sunday.

    I also know he’s probably getting to know other women, which is why I don’t want to get too caught up and I’m also talking to other guys.

    If he kept or keeps talking to me, would it be because he’s interested to some degree? 

    He kissed me on the first and second date. 

    There hasn’t been any sex. I don’t want to think he’s only after that, I’m still getting to know him. 

    What is your take on this?

    He’s going away out of the country and on Sunday he mentioned how he won’t see me until he’s back which is next week.

     I asked him if he really wanted to see me then, and he responded “It’s pretty obvious that I do.” If he said that, would you think it was out of interest towards me?

    I’m 27, and he’s 30.

    I just don’t want to get my hopes up, I’m pretty sure I’m into him, but I’m trying to not set all my focus on him. Which is kinda hard I guess

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • What’s your opinion on this guy?

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    met a guy online about 5 weeks ago.

    He had asked to hangout that weekend but because I wasn’t too comfortable at the moment, I said no. We didn’t start hanging out until 2 weeks ago, and we saw each other for a second time this past Sunday.

    Well, since we started talking it’s been 5 weeks. I guess it’s been almost an every day thing. Here and there we won’t talk. He just texted me last night we’ve exchanged a few messages throughout the day today. 

    Last time we talked before this was when we hung out on Sunday.

    I also know he’s probably getting to know other women, which is why I don’t want to get too caught up and I’m also talking to other guys.

    If he kept or keeps talking to me, would it be because he’s interested to some degree? 

    He kissed me on the first and second date. 

    There hasn’t been any sex. I don’t want to think he’s only after that, I’m still getting to know him. 

    What is your take on this?

    He’s going away out of the country and on Sunday he mentioned how he won’t see me until he’s back which is next week.

     I asked him if he really wanted to see me then, and he responded “It’s pretty obvious that I do.” If he said that, would you think it was out of interest towards me?

    I’m 27, and he’s 30.

    I just don’t want to get my hopes up, I’m pretty sure I’m into him, but I’m trying to not set all my focus on him. Which is kinda hard I guess

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • If I change my profile picture will he not take me seriously?

    I met this guy online about a month ago. 

    Have talked/ texted since day one.Have hung out about 2 times now, these weren't short dates: 8 hours on the 1st date, and 7 on the 2nd. He lives about an hour away not even close to an hour. 

    Yes, he has kissed me. There hasn’t been any physical contact.I last saw him this Sunday, he mentioned 3 times throughout the night how we wouldn't see each other for a week or so because he will be going on a trip. I asked him if he really wanted to see me again he responded "its pretty obvious that I do." 

     Im curious as to whether or not it would be okay for me to update my profile picture on my profile(I just want a new picture I took). I know he is still on there talking to other girls. which is why I am still talking to other guys. I guess I'm curious as to whether or not I should update my picture or not cause I don’t want to give off the vibe that I’m not taking him serious & cause of how I have seen things go with him the 2 times we hung out. They were amazing times. We have gotten along great to be quite honest. I think I might like him. 

    I don't know if he was serious about seeing me again or he just said that. But I haven't talked to him since 2 nights ago when he asked me to let him know when I got home safely. I don't want to get my hopes up I also don't want to over think things. Im 27 & he's 3 years older. There have been times where we don't talk I guess i hope this doesn't fizzle out. My friend said I'm overthinking..

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • If I change my profile picture will he not take me seriously?

    I met this guy online about a month ago.

    Have talked/ texted since day one.Have hung out about 2 times now, these weren't short dates: 8 hours on the 1st date, and 7 on the 2nd. He lives about an hour away not even close to an hour.

    Yes, he has kissed me. There hasn’t been any physical contact.I last saw him this Sunday, he mentioned 3 times throughout the night how we wouldn't see each other for a week or so because he will be going on a trip. I asked him if he really wanted to see me again he responded "its pretty obvious that I do."

    Im curious as to whether or not it would be okay for me to update my profile picture on my profile(I just want a new picture I took). I know he is still on there talking to other girls. which is why I am still talking to other guys. I guess I'm curious as to whether or not I should update my picture or not cause I don’t want to give off the vibe that I’m not taking him serious & cause of how I have seen things go with him the 2 times we hung out. They were amazing times. We have gotten along great to be quite honest. I think I might like him.

    I don't know if he was serious about seeing me again or he just said that. But I haven't talked to him since 2 nights ago when he asked me to let him know when I got home safely. I don't want to get my hopes up I also don't want to over think things. Im 27 & he's 3 years older. There have been times where we don't talk I guess i hope this doesn't fizzle out. My friend said I'm overthinking..

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • What do you think?

    I met this guy online about a month ago. 

    Have talked/ texted since day one.Have hung out about 2 times now, these weren't short dates: 8 hours on the first date, and 7 on the second. He lives about an hour away not even close to an hour. Yes, he has kissed me. There has not been any physical contact.I last saw him this past Sunday, he mentioned 3 times throughout the night how we wouldn't see each other for a week or so because he will be going on a trip. I asked him if he really wanted to see me again, and he responded "its pretty obvious that I do." There hasn't been any talk about exclusivity because its too soon I think. Im curious as to whether or not it would be okay for me to update my profile online. I know he is obviously still on there, so am i.I also would not be surprised if he has been seeing other people which is why I am still talking to other guys. I guess I'm curious as to whether or not I should update my profile because of how I have seen things go with him the 2 times I have hung out with him. They were amazing times. We have gotten along great to be quite honest. I don't know if he was serious about seeing me again, or he just said that. But I haven't talked to him since 2 nights ago when he asked me to let him know when I got home safely. I don't want to get my hopes up I also don't want to over think things. Im 27 & he's 3 years older. There have been times where we don't talk I guess i hope this doesn't fizzle out. My friend said I'm overthinking..

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • What’s your take on this date?

    I think I have a date on Saturday with this guy I have been talking to online. I’m 27 and he’s 3 years older btw.

    We have been texting for the past 3 weeks or so. We live an hour apart. (At one point he sent me a picture of his desk and a glass showed his reflection,lol) We agreed he would show me around I thought this would be a day thing, but he said I should leave around 5pm. Anyways 2 things: what do I even wear? He hasn’t told me where we are going just said he knows a few spots. 

    2nd: I hope he doesn’t think I’ll be spending the night? If so, I don’t think I’ll even have drinks, so I can go home or so I can just book a room so I don’t have to drive home super late. 

    He seems super cool we have good conversations but I’m actually meeting him for the first time. He had asked to hangout at a festival the following week after we met online but I didn’t want to and I also wasn’t able to. 

    He hasn’t said where or what we are doing. I don’t know if it’s a casual outting where I can wear jeans and converse or do I have to dress up? I might have to ask him...? 

    I’m not such an expert on dates myself, help! 

    *He said he knew a few spots where we could go. He had asked prior to that if there was anywhere I wanted to go, but I’m not familiar with the area. I’m gonna have my friend know just in case anything, maybe even have my friend track me lol He also asked if I wanted to hangout here where I live or over there. I said over there. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • What’s your opinion on this date? Any tips?

     I think I have a date on Saturday with this guy I have been talking to online.

    We have been texting for the past 3 weeks or so. We live an hour apart. We agreed he would show me around I thought this would be a day thing, but he said I should leave around 5pm. Anyways 2 things: what do I even wear? He hasn’t told me where we are going just said he knows a few spots. 

    Second: I hope he doesn’t think I’ll be spending the night? If so, I don’t think I’ll even have drinks, so I can go home or so I can just book a room so I don’t have to drive home super late. He seems super cool we have good conversations but I’m actually meeting him for the first time. He had asked to hangout the following week after we met online but I didn’t want to and I also wasn’t able to. 

    The last time I went on a date was 4 months ago and it was just dinner. This guy I don’t know if it’s a casual putting where I can wear jeans and converse or do I have to dress up? I might have to ask him...? 

    I’m not such an expert on dates myself, help!

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating9 months ago
  • Why do I always get Ghosted?

    Seems as if I might have bad luck or something in dating because every time I meet a guy, it won’t end in a relationship. 

    How can I avoid getting ghosted? I feel like it happens to me so much it actually is hurtful because it makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. I’m told I’m physically attractive and that I have a great personality. I know it’s not about looks, but at this point I feel like I’m not enough at all. I met a guy back in March, we went out 3 times before he disappeared and came back and we went out for the 4th time and he disappears again.Met another guy in September, talked for a week, met up, he wanted to hook up but I didn’t, he texted me after we hung out for about 2 days and disappeared.2 weeks ago, I met a guy through bumble, we seem to have hit it off... He asked me to hangout 3 days after we began talking but I wasn’t able to but I said there’s always next time. He kept talking, he asked for my number, and It wasn’t until yesterday when I didn’t hear back from him anymore. I take it as maybe he was just done talking to me and cut me off right then and there. I’m assuming he had gone online because his location changed. So it’s obvious he just didn’t reply to me. I get we are / were getting to know each other but I mean if he isn’t interested he could at least say so. Any advice? I’m 27 years old I want a relationship and it seems as if the more I want it, the harder and imposible it seems. Please no rude comments

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 months ago
  • Why do I always get ghosted?

    Seems as if I might have bad luck or something in dating because every time I meet a guy, it won’t end in a relationship. 

    How can I avoid getting ghosted? I feel like it happens to me so much it actually is hurtful because it makes me feel like there’s something wrong with me. I’m told I’m physically attractive and that I have a great personality. I know it’s not about looks, but at this point I feel like I’m not enough at all. 

    I met a guy back in March, we went out 3 times before he disappeared and came back and we went out for the 4th time and he disappears again.

    Met another guy in September, talked for a week, met up, he wanted to hook up but I didn’t, he texted me after we hung out for about 2 days and disappeared.

    2 weeks ago, I met a guy through bumble, we seem to have hit it off... He asked me to hangout 3 days after we began talking but I wasn’t able to but I said there’s always next time. He kept talking, he asked for my number, and It wasn’t until yesterday when I didn’t hear back from him anymore. I take it as maybe he was just done talking to me and cut me off right then and there. I’m assuming he had gone online because his location changed. So it’s obvious he just didn’t reply to me. I get we are / were getting to know each other but I mean if he isn’t interested he could at least say so. 

    Any advice? I’m 27 years old I want a relationship and it seems as if the more I want it, the harder and imposible it seems. Please no rude comments. 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating10 months ago
  • If he wasn't interested, why wasn't he honest?

    In March a guy started talking to me through instagram, and after a couple of days we exchanged numbers. He asked me out to dinner, and it went well. We pretty much went out 4 times total. The second time we went out, he took me out on my idea of a "perfect date" ( he had asked what it was). Turns out we went to the same college, and graduated the same year. So we hit it off right in the beginning.

    Well the 4th time, he asked me out & it had been 2 months after we last spoke. I had gone on vacation, and he had said he wanted to hangout when I got back, but it never happened. Well, he never let me pay 3 of the 4 times. The 3rd time, I had asked him out for ice cream so it was me treating him. He would text me so much in the beginning, then it became sparse. After the last time I saw him we never spoke again. I thought he would keep seeing me but he never contacted me.

    He's working on his PHD and i understand he's really busy. he's 25, and I'm 27. But if he wasn't interested at all or lost interest why didn't he tell me he just wasn't seeing this go anywhere? I honestly feel like **** because he was really nice, and after a shitty time with my ex, he was treating me so much better, and opening doors, calling me beautiful, kissing my cheek when we would say goodbye. I really really liked him, and i still do. I don't think ill message him because I already feel dumb he never contacted me after that last time. But in your opinion do you think he just lost interest?

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • He totally ghosted me, If he wasn't interested why didn't he just tell me?

    In March a guy started talking to me through instagram, and after a couple of days we exchanged numbers. He asked me out to dinner, and it went well. We pretty much went out 4 times total. The second time we went out, he took me out on my idea of a "perfect date" ( he had asked what it was).

    Well the 4th time, he asked me out & it had been 2 months after we last spoke. I had gone on vacation, and he had said he wanted to hangout when I got back, but it never happened. Well, he never let me pay 3 of the 4 times. The 3rd time, I had asked him out for ice cream so it was me treating him. He would text me so much in the beginning, then it became sparse. After the last time I saw him we never spoke again. I thought he would keep seeing me but he never contacted me.

    He's working on his PHD and i understand he's really busy. he's 25, and I'm 27. But if he wasn't interested at all or lost interest why didn't he tell me he just wasn't seeing this go anywhere? I honestly feel like **** because he was really nice, and after a shitty time with my ex, he was treating me so much better, and opening doors, calling me beautiful, kissing my cheek when we would say goodbye. I really really liked him, and i still do. I don't think ill message him because I already feel dumb he never contacted me after that last time. But in your opinion do you think he just lost interest? He is always looking at my instagram stories when I post, and here and there will like my pics.

    Please no rude comments

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • Why do I feel like Im going to end up alone?

    Lately I have been seeing all over my Facebook feed, and instagram people who I went to high school with getting married, having children.

    That's what I want... I finished college in May 2017, and I have had boyfriends, flings, but nothing that "lasted." So I guess where I am trying to get that, do you believe there is someone for everyone? Why do i feel like I'm not going to get the marriage or family?

    I guess I'm a little bummed out I haven't found a potential partner. I wouldn't count my last relationship as one, so I haven't had a boyfriend in 5 years, between then I have gone out with guys, and flings. Flings are nice, but honestly I am looking for more.

    Am I over reacting? I'm 27 by the way.

    I work as a paraeducator, and i love it.

    But honestly I want to have a boyfriend, i want a real or should i say, serious relationship.. am I just doomed? or am I just impatient and someone out there is actually meant for me but I'm too focused on finding it that I have become so scared and impatient?

    Please be nice, I really don't want mean comments.

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating11 months ago
  • How would I go about asking for days off? NOT paid time.?

    I have a trip coming up with a non refundable airplane ticket. Its in late April. Im asking because I think I might be getting hired at a school district as a para-educator.

    The job description states the position is during the school length year. For certified employers it states how many days of paid time etc. they are given but not classified, and the position i might be hired for is classified.

    So basically I would have vacations off but this trip is a family planned trip to europe that has been paid for completely. So basically airfare, and hotel fees have been paid. I checked the dates and they do not match up with that schools spring break its like a month after.

    How can I ask them for the time off? It would just be a week.

    2 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 year ago
  • Chances Plan B will fail?

    I had unprotected intercourse late Wednesday night, it wasn't something I had planned obviously. He did finish inside of me. Earlier that night before I had sex, I felt like minimal pains you can say on one side of my lower pelvic sides. I took Plan B 9 hours later after sex (around noon).

    I have regular cycles and half way through my cycle is when I experience those pains on my lower pelvic area.

    That day I took Plan B was 2 weeks after my last period. I am supposed to get my period next week.

    Was it possible that I had been ovulating? I also remember my Cervical Mucus being watery through out the day earlier that day before I had intercourse.

    My BMI is 30.7, and someone at Planned Parenthood said Plan B might not have been an effective choice, but like I said it was my only available choice.

    Being said, since I was told that Plan B was not as effective for me considering my weight and height, does it mean it was still some what effective?

    Also, If I had ovulated that night I had sex, and took the pill 9 hours later, would it have been pointless to take the pill in the first place since ovulation took place?

    Im 25 years old, and I had an incident like this happen with this same guy about a year ago. But back then, I was finishing up my last semester in college and was super scared. Now, Im not sure if I am scared, I am extremely confused about how I feel. Im not scared, but at the same time Im curious as to what can happen.

    5 AnswersWomen's Health3 years ago
  • Was Plan B still effective?

    I had unprotected intercourse late Wednesday night, it wasn't something I had planned obviously. He did finish inside of me, unfortunately. Earlier that night before I had sex, I felt like one side of my ovaries ( you can say) was hurting, not necessarily hurting but I felt pains down there. I took Plan B 9 hours later after sex (around noon).

    I have regular cycles and half way through my cycle is when I experience those pains on my lower pelvic area.

    That day I took Plan B was 2 weeks after my last period.

    Was it possible that I had been ovulating? I also remember my Cervical Mucus being watery through out the day.

    My BMI is 30.7, and someone at Planned Parenthood said Plan B might not have been an effective choice, but like I said it was my only available choice.

    Being said, since I was told that Plan B was not as effective for me considering my weight and height, does it mean it was still some what effective?

    I'm supposed to get my period next week around Tuesday or Wednesday.

    Also, If I had ovulated that night I had sex, and took the pill 9 hours later, would it have been pointless to take the pill in the first place since ovulation took place?

    3 AnswersWomen's Health3 years ago
  • Was Plan B Effective?

    I had unprotected intercourse late Wednesday night, it wasn't something I had planned obviously. He did finish inside of me, unfortunately. Earlier that night before I had sex, I felt like one side of my ovaries ( you can say) was hurting, not necessarily hurting but I felt pains down there. I took Plan B the next day around noon. That day I took Plan B was 2 weeks after my last period.

    Was it possible that I had been ovulating? I also remember my Cervical Mucus being watery through out the day. A month ago, I had an incident with the same guy, and I took ELLA. But because I had no access to ELLA this time around, plan B was my only option.

    My BMI is 30.7, and someone at Planned Parenthood said Plan B might not have been an effective choice, but like I said it was my only available choice.

    Being said, that Plan B was not an effective choice, does it mean it was still some what effective?

    I'm supposed to get my period next week around Tuesday or Wednesday.

    I'm old enough to take responsibility so please spare me negative comments, I'm not the first nor last person to have an experience like this or ask a question like this on here. Just thought I would ask... Thanks

    5 AnswersWomen's Health3 years ago