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  • What do you think of the name Fenna?

    Do you like it?

    14 AnswersBaby Names3 weeks ago
  • Am I a bad person for not trusting my brother still after all these years ? ?

    My brother used to bully me when I was younger, constantly called me a loser And friendless even when I was around a friend , shaming me for having body hair as a girl around his guy friend. He would tickle torture me, hit me and even once choked me to the point I actually thought I was going to die. I even remember an instance where he asked me a very personal sexual question and along with my sister forced me to kiss a boy when we were younger. He has not once apologized for his behavior in the past and if I confront him about it, he says that I’M the one who abused him. Now that he’s older he’s put up a nice, charismatic guy act and everyone adores him and thinks he’s a good person. When he still in secret abuses me sometimes like last night he called me a dumbass, idiot for something super small that angered him. I can’t forgive him still for all he has done. Am I wrong? 

    2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 month ago
  • What can I do about my brother and his dog? ?

    My brother sleeps with very loud music on and doesn’t even use headphones. His dog also sleeps there with him and every night I can hear his dog crying and trying to get out of the room. I always try to let her out when he’s asleep but last night he woke up and lashed out at me for trying to let Her out. He says that she cries for another reason but i know for a fact it’s because of the loud music and she literally does not sleep because of it. I am so sick of this and feel bad for her. What can I possibly do? He’s just a horrible dog owner in general and has forgotten to give her water in the past before so I had to. 

    10 AnswersDogs1 month ago
  • How can I stop being friends with this guy without hurting him? ?

    He is extremely clingy and in love with me. But I feel like I HAVE to be his friend and that if I stop being his friend that I’m a horrible person because he has aspergers. I’ve literally put up with all the things he’s done for years and honestly I’m done. He has sexualized me and tried to force a relationship even just forcing a best friend title when we aren’t best friends.  I wish him the best and I hope he can live on. But he makes me feel guilty whenever I try to leave this friendship, he tells me that he’s gonna die or wishes he could commit suicide . I feel like I’m pretending to like him and I’m seriously done. Please help guys I feel like an awful person

    1 AnswerFriends1 month ago
  • Was this assault?

    When I was young , like around 9 years old an older family friend told my siblings that he would give them some money if they forced me to kiss him. I obviously resisted the kiss and every time I saw him again I felt disgusted by him.. I think that’s why I’m so disgusted by guys. Is this Considered some type of assault? 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Who is in the wrong? ?

    So my sister caught on to how I have been using one of her lipsticks because it accidentally broke off one day. The reason I used her lipstick was because I ran out of mine and since I have really bad (diagnosed) body dysmorphia I cannot go a day without makeup. Basically, She woke me up yelling at the top of her lungs, said I was a freak, that she hated me, That I wasn’t a real

    “Christian” then proceeded to take some of my stuff and my guitar. I quickly got up to get my guitar and as I was wrestling her for it , she said that she was gonna murder me and managed to scratch my arm pretty bad. And if all that wasn’t enough said that she’s gonna put a curse on me. I feel like maybe I did deserve this treatment because it was an expensive lipstick so I’m going to try and buy her a new one. Opinions please ? 

    6 AnswersFamily2 months ago
  • Am I in the wrong or is my mom? ?

    A couple days ago my mom and sister got in a fight due to my sister accusing her of always putting herself first and never truly listening to her, so naturally they have stopped speaking. My mom has started to talk to me more and decided to tell me that she has a secret. The secret was that my sister told her that she thinks I’m better than her, and more successful . That she envious of me and my talents. It made me really upset because I love my sister and we’re very close. So I told my sister everything my mom told me and my sister said that our mom has also spread lies about me, that I’M also jealous of my sister, that I think she’s smarter than me. And while I do agree that she’s smarter than me I am not envious of her! My mom found out (sister confronted her) and now my mom is heated and is demanding to call me . She yelled at me that I’m only causing problems for her. Who is in the wrong? 

    6 AnswersFamily2 months ago
  • Why would my male therapist ask me if I’ve ever had sex before?

    And when I said no he looked surprised . Is this normal behavior a therapist ??

    5 AnswersPsychology5 months ago
  • does rhinoplasty ruin your singing voice?

    I desperately need rhinoplasty but don’t wanna ruin my singing voice cause its good so ..

    4 AnswersSinging1 year ago
  • Is what my therapist said to me inappropriate?

    I was telling her about my life and what i've been through, and she said " I wonder how you didn't commit suicide" . Is it just me or was that an inappropriate thing to say ? it made me feel bad and like I should have commited suicide.

    16 AnswersPsychology2 years ago
  • Mom hasn't been eating much, she lost her appetite and she isn't sleeping well? Depression or disease?

    i read these could be signs of near death and i am terrified is this true is she gonna be ok :( ? She is 43 . Too young to die and we need her. Also, is this the sign of a disease or is this because shes depressed due to divorce with my dad and she left the house to live with my aunt:( Is it due to depression or disease?

    5 AnswersMental Health2 years ago
  • Am i the only one who gets this feeling? Whats it called?

    I get this feeling a lot where i feel this sad yet very disgusted feeling. Its also kinda like butterflies in your stomach and it comes up to my chesst and throat. Or like when you're really nervous feeling! it feels so bad . Like when i get this i feel extremely disgusted by everything and feeling as if i need to throw up. and it makes me wanna cry aswell . Its horrible anyone relate? i feel awful

    4 AnswersPsychology2 years ago
  • Who here has acid reflux/dilent reflux, and what have you done to make it go away pls help?

    Went to see a ENT and he diagnosed me with silent reflux . I have been so upset and anxious as i sing and i am about to start a career in singing. How do u heal the reflux fast? Any advice? Btw yes the doctor gave me a paper on foods to cut out and he prescribed medication but i read online that the meds ppl take for reflux are dangerous ! So yeah i need advice thanks

    2 AnswersOther - General Health Care2 years ago

    So, i decided to eat an orange, and i rinsed it with water for like 30 seconds , which i now regret cause i think it needed more time to clean! as i was eating the orange i got some of the juice from the orange in my nose and then a bit in my eye. I am panicking so much i feel weak dizzy and like im about to die. What are the chances of me getting horribly sick ?

    3 AnswersOther - General Health Care2 years ago