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  • Should I text first ? Or wait ? ?

    I have texted him two time’s twice and he texted me back first for one time . However , we have great conversations and he reply’s quickly. 

    Should I texted him today first or wait for him to text me first ? 

    Singles & Dating9 hours ago
  • Should I text him or wait ? ?

    I have texted him two time’s twice and he texted me back first for one time . However , we have great conversations and he reply’s quickly. 

    Should I texted him today first or wait for him to text me first ? 

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating10 hours ago
  • Why is he with me if he doesn’t want a future ??

    Me and my boyfriend was together four years . We split up and was broken up for three/four months. I met up with someone when separated and slept with the guy. 

    I bumped into my ex and we got speaking and tryed to give it another shot. He found out I slept with someone when we was broken up and he was upset. We are still together now it’s been four months together now and I asked him “what does he want for our future “? “Do you want to get married one day” have children “ and he said “ do you think am an idiot to get married to you and have kids with you” he said if you loved me you wouldn’t of done it. Why is he back with me if he doesn’t see a future with me ? Sometimes He throws it in my face what I did. With sly comments. All i do is cry. What should I do ???

    57 AnswersSingles & Dating3 weeks ago
  • Why is he with me if he sees no FUTURE?

    Me and my boyfriend was together four years . We split up and was broken up for three/four months. I met up with someone when separated and slept with the guy. 

    I bumped into my ex and we got speaking and tryed to give it another shot. He found out I slept with someone when we was broken up and he was upset. 

    We are still together now it’s been four months together now and I asked him “what does he want for our future “? “Do you want to get married one day” have children “ and he said “ do you think am an idiot to get married to you and have kids with you” he said if you loved me you wouldn’t of done it. 

    Why is he back with me if he doesn’t see a future with me ? Sometimes He throws it in my face what I did. With sly comments. 

    All i do is cry. 

    What should I do ???

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating3 weeks ago
  • Is the man am dating worthy it ??

    i am a single mum of two kids ) 

    I met my boyfriend 2015 and we broke up 2020 for three months. We are back together now. I still want to get married and have a child but he said he doesn’t now because when we split I met up with someone else . (Stuff happened. ) 

    My boyfriend is 38 and am 29 he has no children and when we split up he moved out and never fight for our relationship. 

    I’m helping him with his new home and find a job while am still unemployed and stuffing with depression. 

    I still want to get married and have more children and travel and he don’t want it.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating4 weeks ago
  • Is this relationship worth holding on to ?? Urgent ?

    ( i am a single mum of two kids ) 

    I met my boyfriend 2015 and we broke up 2020 for three months. We are back together now. I still want to get married and have a child but he said he doesn’t now because when we split I met up with someone else . (Stuff happened. ) 

    My boyfriend is 38 and am 29 he has no children and when we split up he moved out and never fight for our relationship. 

    I still want to get married and have more children and travel and he don’t want it.

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 weeks ago
  •  why did he hang up the phone ? ?

    Me and my partner of 4 years FaceTimed each other today. He’s 38 am 29 I asked him if “he sees me in his future “ does he want me to be the one he grows old with and have kids with” then he said “I don’t want any woman in my life I want to be free” I said “really?” He said “I phone you and your moaning your in a moody way” **** you “ and then he hung up the phone” 

    Background story. 

    Been together four years 

    I have two kids to my ex 

    He has no kids of his own

    He moved out 6 months ago and has a flat 

    Why did he act like this when I asked the questions ? I asked him because am going into my 30s soon and don’t want to be strung along 

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating1 month ago
  • What do i do ?? :( ?

     He laughed because I had a pair of tight fitted jeans on. Then he says am beautiful. I feel so low in myself wondering if I should show skin or not . Am so confused!! He makes me feel good then bring me down with sly comments. 

    Also when I pass a negative comment about a woman he turns it on me. Makes her look innocent and I look bad . The other females are always right and am not. Why???Also if am invited to BBQs or for days out where I don’t have to cook (because am the guest) he doesn’t like it. He doesn’t like people waiting on me and always wants me to host things . He says his ex’s where more dirty in bed then I am . He tells me when he has been complimented by other women  

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Is this abusive ? ?? HELP?

    Am self conscious about my legs . I’m sorry but I don’t like things extremely short. He laughed because I had a pair of tight fitted jeans on. Then he says am beautiful. I feel so low in myself wondering if I should show skin or not . Am so confused!! He makes me feel good then bring me down with sly comments. 

    Also when I pass a negative comment about a woman he turns it on me. Makes her look innocent and I look bad . The other females are always right and am not. Why???

    Also if am invited to BBQs or for days out where I don’t have to cook (because am the guest) he doesn’t like it. He doesn’t like people waiting on me and always wants me to host things . 

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Is he emotionally abusing me ? ?

    My boyfriend of 3 years tells me I should show more skin in public. He tells me he sees women with short skirts on and dresses in the summer and I should wear them. I’m so annoyed!! I said I bet if I put it on you wouldn’t be happy. He LOVES to talk about other women .He looks at other women when we are out (public places) only for a few seconds . 

    But the minute a man looks at me he can’t help but get angry!! 

    Am self conscious about my legs . And sorry but I don’t like things extremely short. He laughed because I had a pair of tight fitted jeans on. Then he says am beautiful. I feel so low in myself wondering if I should show skin or not . Am so confused!! He makes me feel good then bring me down with sly comments. 

    Also when I pass a negative comment about a woman he turns it on me. Makes her look innocent and I look bad . The other females are  always right and am not. Why???

    3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • Why is he making me feel INSECURE ??

    My boyfriend of 3 years tells me I should show more skin in public. He tells me he sees women with short skirts on and dresses in the summer and I should wear them. I’m so annoyed!! I said I bet if I put it on you wouldn’t be happy. He LOVES to talk about other women .He looks at other women when we are out (public places) only for a few seconds . 

    But the minute a man looks at me he can’t help but get angry!! 

    Am self conscious about my legs . And sorry but I don’t like things extremely short. He laughed because I had a pair of tight fitted jeans on. Then he says am beautiful. I feel so low in myself wondering if I should show skin or not . Am so confused!! He makes me feel good then bring me down with sly comments. 

    Singles & Dating2 months ago
  • Why is he doing this???.  :( ?

    My boyfriend of 3 years tells me I should show more skin in public. He tells me he sees women with short skirts on and dresses in the summer and I should wear them. I’m so annoyed!! I said I bet if I put it on you wouldn’t be happy. He LOVES to talk about other women .He looks at other women when we are out (public places) only for a few seconds . 

    But the minute a man looks at me he can’t help but get angry!! 

    Am self conscious about my legs . And sorry but I don’t like things extremely short.  He laughed because I had a pair of tight fitted jeans on. Then he says am beautiful. I feel so low in myself wondering if I should show skin or not . Am so confused!! He makes me feel good then bring me down with sly comments. 

    5 AnswersSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • 30 years old and NEVER travelled ? ADVICE ASAP ?

    I have never travelled I’m a mother of two kids under 10. 

    I don’t know where to start with travelling . I’ve had my passport sit in my cupboard for two years. 

    I want to bring the kids on some holidays but not all and I also don’t have help from family or friends. 

    My boyfriend can’t travel due to high working demands. 

    I need to travel and why am I held back so much. If it’s not one thing it’s another. Am absolutely tired of feeling like I’ll never travel . 

    8 AnswersOther - Destinations2 months ago
  • Why is her life ruined ??? ?

    I understand that we make our own lives but what if finally this person wants to have a happier life and do the step and takes the advice to have financial freedom etc. But no Matter WHAT it doesn’t work for them. 

    The woman I know is not blaming people for her misfortunes but let’s be honest she is struggling!! She’s only 30 and hasn’t even travelled, hasn’t even got anyone to help and no one in her family will help because that don’t want her to thrive . YES the kids are her kids but she had them from being in a domestic violence relationship and him making her keep them. Now She try’s really hard , she exercises, Meditates and has action plans for her goals but something won’t let her reach them. She has no one that helps her with her children . She’s a single mom and now depends on her new partner. She had two children to a Narcissistic . She’s been going through court for 5 years because he wants to see the kids. He will take her to court to hurt her and try and control her through the courts. She has some friends but they are all childless and busy and her friend that do have kids have there kids dad. She also comes from a single parent home. NEVER had her dad love and attention. Are some people just ment to have bad life’s? 

    1 AnswerFamily2 months ago
  • 30 AND NEVER travelled:( ?

    I have never travelled and now am a Single mother of two kids under 10. 

    I don’t know where to start with travelling . I’ve had my passport sit in my cupboard for two years. 

    I want to bring the kids on some holidays but not all and I also don’t have help from family or friends. 

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships2 months ago
  • Are some people cursed ??

    I understand that we make our own lives but what if finally this person wants to have a happier life and do the step and takes the advice to have financial freedom etc. But no Matter WHAT it doesn’t work for them. 

    She is not blaming people for her misfortunes but let’s be honest she is struggling!! She’s only 30 and hasn’t even travelled, hasn’t even got anyone to help and no one in her family will help because that don’t want her to thrive .  I know someone who has had misfortune for years. She try’s really hard , she exercises, Meditates and has action plans for her goals but something won’t let her reach them. She has no one that helps her with her children . She’s a single mom and now depends on her new partner. She had two children to a Narcissistic Are some people just ment to have bad life’s? 

    2 AnswersFriends2 months ago
  • Are some people CURSED ?

    I understand that we make our own lives but what if finally this person wants to have a happier life and do the step and takes the advice to have financial freedom etc. But no Matter WHAT it doesn’t work for them. 

    I know someone who has had misfortune for years. She try’s really hard , she exercises, Meditates and has action plans for her goals but something won’t let her reach them. She has no one that helps her with her children . She’s a single mom and now depends on her new partner. 

    She had two children to a Sociopath and one of her kids is the twin of him (behaviour wise) 

    Are some people just ment to have bad life’s? 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 months ago
  • I want to travel ??? Please help ?

    Growing up I wasn’t the child to talk about holidays because my family never travelled (lack of money) (single parent with chronic depression) etc 

     

    How can I travel now I have two children under 10 . I have never travelled and am 30 years old. Am a single mum and haven’t worked for two years due to one of my children having ADHD and bi polar and I had to quit jobs. I want my kids to travel with me but I also want to go solo. Any tips on how to travel? Making them steps. I have had my passport sitting for two years in my cupboard. I’m currently dating someone but he cannot travel due to busy work commitments at the moment. I feel as though am not ment to travel I have so much obstacles or things holding me back. 

    4 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships2 months ago
  • Can some people be cursed ? ?

    I understand that we make our own lives but what if finally this person wants to have a happier life and do the step and takes the advice to have financial freedom etc. But no Matter WHAT it doesn’t work for them. 

    I know someone who has had misfortune for years. She try’s really hard , she exercises, Meditates and has action plans for her goals but something won’t let her reach them. She has no one that helps her with her children . She’s a single mom and now depends on her new partner. 

    Are some people just ment to have bad life’s?  

    5 AnswersReligion & Spirituality2 months ago
  •  Will he tell anyone what we did ? !! ?

    I slept with someone 6 months ago and he said I don’t have to worry because he won’t tell anyone . I’m paranoid though. It’s been six months and so far no one has confronted me. The guy I slept with lives local. He lives 10 minutes from me. Also this guy said to me when ever I get a boyfriend let him know and he won’t contact me. So I told him and he hasn’t contacted me. The guy is a cool guy and it was nothing serious. He never introduced me to anyone so am assuming everything will be kept quite 

     

    am in a new relationship now (been with the new guy 2 Months ) this new guy is amazing so far 

    I’m just really paranoid. And I don’t want my business everywhere. Do guys tell everyone who they have slept with ? Are some men private ?

    Am paranoid if am with my boyfriend and he would tell him  

    Has anyone been on this situation? If so explain 

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating2 months ago