I've been married for 3 years. he's good looking, smart, funny, but I still don't ever wanna have sex. we fight almost everyday. today my husband flipped out on me and accused me of zooming in the TV screen ( and I never touch the remote). He screamed about it. I can't go out with friends ever. He has "anxiety", so we haven't been out on a date in 2 years. When I was pregnant, he introduced me to a group of friends by saying "I get to to F*ck the pregnant one". yeah, that was 2 years ago, but I feel so resentful and unloved....and I'm not loving in return. I love him, but not in a passionate way, although sometimes I hate him. His temper is horrible and I'm always bored, I have no sex drive, I'm 24 and attractive. It just sucks. Is this what married life is...watching ESPN, cleaning, taking care of a kid, and finding excuses to not have sex. I think if I would leave I would regret it, he's a good catch, I just feel lonely and emotionally drained. do all ppl get this way.