• Are you short, tall, normal. What is your height ? (preferably the girls).?

    I'm pretty short 5'2"(girl) and I was wondering if this is extremely short or short normal. So I was wondering the height of other girls (above 16).
    I'm pretty short 5'2"(girl) and I was wondering if this is extremely short or short normal. So I was wondering the height of other girls (above 16).
    5 answers · Diet & Fitness · 9 years ago
  • I get picked on at 25...and I'm smart and cute, its horrible.?

    Conflict with others at clinical in nursing school....need help. So I just finished nursing I last semester. I was in clinical with this one girl that really didn't like me, harassed me almost constantly, kind of adult bullying. Well despite daily verbal conflict with this person and plenty of tears on my ride home, I did really well in the... show more
    Conflict with others at clinical in nursing school....need help. So I just finished nursing I last semester. I was in clinical with this one girl that really didn't like me, harassed me almost constantly, kind of adult bullying. Well despite daily verbal conflict with this person and plenty of tears on my ride home, I did really well in the clinical and class. So I was stoked to not only be at the top of my class but to finally get away from this girl and her clique. Well I just reviewed the options for teachers for NUR2 and the teacher/hospital I want is 10 minutes from my house and has a good reputation. The other teacher is 40 minutes and is supposedly really mean/hard. Well the one I want is the same one my lil "enemy" is signing up for (with her entourage). I don't know what to do....drive really far with a hard teacher to stay away from this girl or deal with her again this semester so I'll have a better experience with the instructor and more time away from the far drive . Nursing school has been pretty demanding and I just wish I did't have to worry about something like this. Any advice is welcomed and appreciated
    3 answers · Hair · 9 years ago
  • Conflict with others at clinical in nursing school....need help.?

    So I just finished nursing I last semester. I was in clinical with this one girl that really didn't like me, harassed me almost constantly, kind of adult bullying. Well despite daily verbal conflict with this person and plenty of tears on my ride home, I did really well in the clinical and class. So I was stoked to not only be at the top of my... show more
    So I just finished nursing I last semester. I was in clinical with this one girl that really didn't like me, harassed me almost constantly, kind of adult bullying. Well despite daily verbal conflict with this person and plenty of tears on my ride home, I did really well in the clinical and class. So I was stoked to not only be at the top of my class but to finally get away from this girl and her clique. Well I just reviewed the options for teachers for NUR2 and the teacher/hospital I want is 10 minutes from my house and has a good reputation. The other teacher is 40 minutes and is supposedly really mean/hard. Well the one I want is the same one my lil "enemy" is signing up for (with her entourage). I don't know what to do....drive really far with a hard teacher to stay away from this girl or deal with her again this semester so I'll have a better experience with the instructor and more time away from the far drive . Nursing school has been pretty demanding and I just wish I did't have to worry about something like this. Any advice is welcomed and appreciated.
    1 answer · Family · 9 years ago
  • Neighbor could be abusive towards toddler...need help?

    Ok. so today before I left to work, I took my two year old daught on a walk through our apartment complex. Well we were walking to her friend Emily's for a playdate type thing and we passed an apartment. A dad and little girl (about 18 months) walked out. Well he was talking to some other guy and his cigarette ash fell on his daughter(assumed).... show more
    Ok. so today before I left to work, I took my two year old daught on a walk through our apartment complex. Well we were walking to her friend Emily's for a playdate type thing and we passed an apartment. A dad and little girl (about 18 months) walked out. Well he was talking to some other guy and his cigarette ash fell on his daughter(assumed). She screams in pain and I stop right in front of them. He swipes the burning ash from the top of her ear....then to my surprise starts screaming at her. I mean like, "your always up my effing ***!" he keeps screaming, cursing at her, then yanks her up by her arm and drags her off screaming into the distance towards their apartment. My little one runs away, frightened, and frankly I was a little too. I could understand him being upset that she fot burnt, but he yelled at her about it. It didn't seem normal at all. He kept saying "f" at her and she sounded so terrified when she shreaked. I ushered Vera towards her friends house, and told Emily's parents. They recognized the man I was talking about and said that the little girl was almost hit by a car the other day because he walks so far ahead of her. I don't know. He seems like a total psycho and part of me thinks that it is my obligation to tell some authority about this incident. I'm also fearful of the reaction my family could get from him. It was only me and his friend tht saw him acting like that. I'm moving into a townhome we just purchased in Feb and my husbnad insists that if I do call anyone that I wait unitl we move. I don't know. I worry for that little one, if that guy acts like that outside, I wonder what he's like inside alone with the kid. So how help rational people, because I usually lack in this area. It's not my typical black and white problem solving. thanks.
    12 answers · Family · 10 years ago
  • Possibilty of child abuse...i'm in a bind and need some advice?

    Ok. so today before I left to work, I took my two year old daught on a walk through our apartment complex. Well we were walking to her friend Emily's for a playdate type thing and we passed an apartment. A dad and little girl (about 18 months) walked out. Well he was talking to some other guy and his cigarette ash fell on his daughter(assumed).... show more
    Ok. so today before I left to work, I took my two year old daught on a walk through our apartment complex. Well we were walking to her friend Emily's for a playdate type thing and we passed an apartment. A dad and little girl (about 18 months) walked out. Well he was talking to some other guy and his cigarette ash fell on his daughter(assumed). She screams in pain and I stop right in front of them. He swipes the burning ash from the top of her ear....then to my surprise starts screaming at her. I mean like, "your always up my effing a$$!" he keeps screaming, cursing at her, then yanks her up by her arm and drags her off screaming into the distance towards their apartment. My little one runs away, frightened, and frankly I was a little too. I could understand him being upset that she fot burnt, but he yelled at her about it. It didn't seem normal at all. He kept saying "f" at her and she sounded so terrified when she shreaked. I ushered Vera towards her friends house, and told Emily's parents. They recognized the man I was talking about and said that the little girl was almost hit by a car the other day because he walks so far ahead of her. I don't know. He seems like a total psycho and part of me thinks that it is my obligation to tell some authority about this incident. I'm also fearful of the reaction my family could get from him. It was only me and his friend tht saw him acting like that. I'm moving into a townhome we just purchased in Feb and my husbnad insists that if I do call anyone that I wait unitl we move. I don't know. I worry for that little one, if that guy acts like that outside, I wonder what he's like inside alone with the kid. So how help rational people, because I usually lack in this area. It's not my typical black and white problem solving. thanks.
    6 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 10 years ago
  • Abusive management at restaraunt?

    The other day....at Cracker Barrel. I approached my general manager about a question, I asked if I could use his pen. He responded( joking). :You didn't say Hi to me today." I was like " yeah I did, maybe you were not listening". Him: " No, you said Hi yesterday". Then he slapped my tray out of my hand and laughed. One of the cooks went to pick it... show more
    The other day....at Cracker Barrel. I approached my general manager about a question, I asked if I could use his pen. He responded( joking). :You didn't say Hi to me today." I was like " yeah I did, maybe you were not listening". Him: " No, you said Hi yesterday". Then he slapped my tray out of my hand and laughed. One of the cooks went to pick it up (along with my notepad and pen). And he (the GM) said " No, Jessica's a big girl, she can pick it up". So I picked it up, and Matt gave me the pen I asked for. I went on my way...and the cook came up and apologized for Matt. He said he thought it was demeaning and embarrassing. The way that he treated me. I just wanted your opinion. Was that kinda kidding around, or more like a display of power, and picking on me?
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 10 years ago
  • At a restaurant who brings the silver ware?

    I know this is a dumb question...but I don't remember...who gives you the silver ware after you sit down..the hostess or the server?
    I know this is a dumb question...but I don't remember...who gives you the silver ware after you sit down..the hostess or the server?
    4 answers · Family · 10 years ago
  • At a restaurant who brings the silver ware?

    I know this is a dumb question...but I don't remember...who gives you the silver ware after you sit down..the hostess or the server?
    I know this is a dumb question...but I don't remember...who gives you the silver ware after you sit down..the hostess or the server?
    4 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 10 years ago
  • Sisterly love...to hate her right now. need help.?

    So I just got accepted into USF's RN school and got a packet in the mail saying my background screening and drug test need to be completed next week. I just started a new job (serving at cracker barrel) and I won't have a paycheck by then. So....I asked my sister to borrow a hundred dollars for the screenings. she said no, then told me about how her... show more
    So I just got accepted into USF's RN school and got a packet in the mail saying my background screening and drug test need to be completed next week. I just started a new job (serving at cracker barrel) and I won't have a paycheck by then. So....I asked my sister to borrow a hundred dollars for the screenings. she said no, then told me about how her rent and all is over a thousand dollars a month, and was irritated that I even asked. So I said I understand and I do....but I really don't. I don't habitually borrow money off of anyone and she knows I'd pay her back. Yesterday, I called her and she was at a bar (like she is 3-4 a week, when she's not shopping). I get irritated that she has money for herself to overindulge( and drive her more into debt). I know that it's not her responsibility to provide or loan anything to me....I just feel..like she knows how important this is, and she doesn't care enough to loan the money. I get she's in debt, but she works at Cody's and makes over 120 in most five hour shifts...has money for new shoes, clothes, hair, beer, trips with her boyfriend...but she can't loan me 100 bucks. I think that she has it, she just sees it as inconvenience. It bothers me...because I would do it for her. I would lend her money to go to the bar...let alone to help get her into school. I don't know. Am I being irrational and selfish..or right in my opinion of her being selfish.
    6 answers · Family · 10 years ago
  • Get a job serving, opening a restaraunt. need advice.?

    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act... show more
    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act like upset customers and test our responses. I need advice on the whole thing, any tips for doing well and avoiding the mistakes that every newbie makes. It's greatly appreciated.
    1 answer · Other - Careers & Employment · 10 years ago
  • Waitressing job jitters...at the Cracker Barrel...lol...still need some support?

    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act... show more
    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act like upset customers and test our responses. I need advice on the whole thing, any tips for doing well and avoiding the mistakes that every newbie makes. It's greatly appreciated.
    3 answers · Other - Beauty & Style · 10 years ago
  • New job...serving..need advice?

    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act... show more
    So I just got hired at cracker barrel. I have little experience (I worked as a cocktail waitress at a sports bar, like 3 years ago). So I'm so nervous. The store is just opening and they're giving us training and I guess we get to do alot of "restaurant role playing". I'm kind of scared of that cause I'm guessing all the managers are going to act like upset customers and test our responses. I need advice on the whole thing, any tips for doing well and avoiding the mistakes that every newbie makes. It's greatly appreciated.
    1 answer · Other - Careers & Employment · 10 years ago
  • Seriously hating my mother in law..any advice?

    I was cooking dinner for everyone (mother in law has been down from PA all week). My husband changed my 2 year old, then came in the kitchen yelling at me for not changing her. He was in the living room with her at the time, so I told him "it was just a poop, not a big deal". So this little spat turned into him yelling at me for not paying attention... show more
    I was cooking dinner for everyone (mother in law has been down from PA all week). My husband changed my 2 year old, then came in the kitchen yelling at me for not changing her. He was in the living room with her at the time, so I told him "it was just a poop, not a big deal". So this little spat turned into him yelling at me for not paying attention that she had a poop ten minutes ago. Well I dismiss him and his arguement and kinda sneer and laugh. Well MIL can't stand to see her son upset (which he usually is about something). So she tells me that I should love him for who he is and I knew his tempermant and not to argue with him. I got so mad that she said that, I told her to mind her own business and to stop telling me how to do things in my own home. She said that my lil one gets scared when Jason yells because I told her to be scared. I was even more angry and told her that she need not worry about my kid....accentuating the "my kid" part. So she says, if that's how it is I'll sue you for custody. I handed her cell and told her she could call a lawyer on the way to the airport, then I called a taxi for her. Anyway, I don't feel that bad. I feel relieved that she's not here, but I do feel bad that this is probably going to have long term consequences and I worried about how my husband feels. I just want opinions. We've only been married for 3 years and we're in our mid- twenties. I don't know if I'm too rash and non tolerant..ya know. It gets hard sometimes.
    15 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago
  • Mother in law...screaming match?

    So my "mom"is down, she comes every 2 months for 2 weeks and stays with us. I've gotten used to the comments about the house, or baby, and other little critiques. Today, she said she wanted to have an "intervention" on my husbands drinking porblem (he hasn't worked in a while and she thinks this could be the reason). I said I wouldn't confront him... show more
    So my "mom"is down, she comes every 2 months for 2 weeks and stays with us. I've gotten used to the comments about the house, or baby, and other little critiques. Today, she said she wanted to have an "intervention" on my husbands drinking porblem (he hasn't worked in a while and she thinks this could be the reason). I said I wouldn't confront him with her and that he did have a problem and we've discussed it and she could talk with him. (Meanwhile, at 10 am she drank about 4 glasses of wine. ) After I affirm that it's an issue but don't wanna gang up on him with her about it. She yells at me, and says that I don't care about my kids father. I get angry and tell her that I don't care about t she conversation and she can yell all day and I still won't care. she's starts yelling "I want the truth!". So my husband tells her that he has a problem and to stop yelling at Jess (me). I tell her she must be in denial and while Jason and I have problems, she acting like she has some problems to. Then I tell her again that I don't care b/c I'm an obnoxious "B", and look forward to her going home. So then I left and went crying to my mom and mother in law is on a plane. So my question is......now I feel bad, I still don't like her, but I want our family to be a family, and I may have ruined it. Any advice?
    5 answers · Family · 1 decade ago
  • So weird...growing up and love?

    I'm 24, married, with a 3 year old. The other day my husband and I got in a fight and I slept in the spare bedroom...instead of sleeping I layed there awake remembering when I was 16, and me and my first love lyed in bed just looking at each other...and this kid (who was 19) said that I was so perfect...and it was honest. like the green and yellow... show more
    I'm 24, married, with a 3 year old. The other day my husband and I got in a fight and I slept in the spare bedroom...instead of sleeping I layed there awake remembering when I was 16, and me and my first love lyed in bed just looking at each other...and this kid (who was 19) said that I was so perfect...and it was honest. like the green and yellow in his eyes was so hard of a look that I remember it almost ten years later. The next day, I get a myspace message saying that he has been looking for me..so weird...and maybe casual. Part of me wishes that we would get married and be 16 again..with that new love and burdenless loyalty. Is this normal? I want me and my husband to be in love like that. How I remember being when I was 16 and things seemed real. And now there is this person saying that they haven't forgotten me..and tho nothing will come of it. Why does it make me cry, that my life is the way it is. dull....and loveless. why can't every love be like that of your first?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 1 decade ago
  • Being drunk at bars sucks

    My friend is in jail...need advice met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the... show more
    My friend is in jail...need advice met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got pissed and wanted to stay with this guy. I said "you don't even know him, and he's gross." His female friend over heard it and got in my face...my friend started yelling with her, at me. So I told her it was her last chance to go home with me. She kept yelling about how I was bringing her down and she wanted to stay... so I gave her her keys and wallet...(which I held while she gave lapdances)...and left. So now I was lost and had my sister come get me...well it turns out the guy she was all over wouldn't take her home...she wanted us(sister and I) to drive back an hour and get her. I didn't and she got arrested after her husband called the police on her in the morning. She ended up being on probabtion and is now sitting in jail w/ 1000 bond. I feel horrible but at the time I felt she was being direspectful and left her. Now her parents want me to help post her bail. I feel bad, but I don't really think it's entirely my fault. Any suggestions 41 minutes ago - 1 week left to answer. Additional Details 24 minutes ago i live far away from her and we only meet up once every few months. Her husband got an injunction on her which she violated and they put her on probation (they live together). When she got home (IDK when) he called the probabtion officer and she got arrested. I don't know all the details...her mother left me the message on my phone 18 minutes ago oh yeah....with all the money people were putting in her pants when she was on the bar could have gotten her a taxi. I don't have the money for that. Like I said...I do feel bad for leaving her....the situation escalated when they were in my face about to fight. At that point I wasn't feeling as empathic.
    1 answer · Beer, Wine & Spirits · 1 decade ago
  • My friend is in jail...need advice

    met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got... show more
    met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got pissed and wanted to stay with this guy. I said "you don't even know him, and he's gross." His female friend over heard it and got in my face...my friend started yelling with her, at me. So I told her it was her last chance to go home with me. She kept yelling about how I was bringing her down and she wanted to stay... so I gave her her keys and wallet...(which I held while she gave lapdances)...and left. So now I was lost and had my sister come get me...well it turns out the guy she was all over wouldn't take her home...she wanted us(sister and I) to drive back an hour and get her. I didn't and she got arrested after her husband called the police on her in the morning. She ended up being on probabtion and is now sitting in jail w/ 1000 bond. I feel horrible but at the time I felt she was being direspectful and left her. Now her parents want me to help post her bail. I feel bad, but I don't really think it's entirely my fault. Any suggestions
    12 answers · Family · 1 decade ago
  • Bars are horrible places

    I met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got... show more
    I met up with a friend and we went out to a bar (like an 1.5 hrs from my house). Well close to two and they called last call...so I told my friend we had to go. She was sitting on some guys lap across the room and had been acting slutty bouncing around all night. She said wait and then when they turned on the lights, I said "we have to go". She got pissed and wanted to stay with this guy. I said "you don't even know him, and he's gross." His female friend over heard it and got in my face...my friend started yelling with her, at me. So I told her it was her last chance to go home with me. She kept yelling about how I was bringing her down and she wanted to stay... so I gave her her keys and wallet...(which I held while she gave lapdances)...and left. So now I was lost and had my sister come get me...well it turns out the guy she was all over wouldn't take her home...she wanted us(sister and I) to drive back an hour and get her. I didn't and she got arrested after her husband called the police on her in the morning. She ended up being on probabtion and is now sitting in jail w/ 1000 bond. I feel horrible but at the time I felt she was being direspectful and left her. Now her parents want me to help post her bail. I feel bad, but I don't really think it's entirely my fault. Any suggestions?
    3 answers · Friends · 1 decade ago
  • Highlights and vanity issues?

    My uncle said that my highlights looked good, b/c they balanced my "strong features". Is that nice talk that really means 'ugly', big nose, stuff like that. I'll include a pic. I just wanna know what "strong features"... show more
    My uncle said that my highlights looked good, b/c they balanced my "strong features". Is that nice talk that really means 'ugly', big nose, stuff like that. I'll include a pic. I just wanna know what "strong features" means. http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q28/s... http://i132.photobucket.com/albums/q28/s... (the last ones shotty)
    4 answers · Fashion & Accessories · 1 decade ago
  • When is it over...relationships?

    I've been married for 3 years. he's good looking, smart, funny, but I still don't ever wanna have sex. we fight almost everyday. today my husband flipped out on me and accused me of zooming in the TV screen ( and I never touch the remote). He screamed about it. I can't go out with friends ever. He has "anxiety", so we... show more
    I've been married for 3 years. he's good looking, smart, funny, but I still don't ever wanna have sex. we fight almost everyday. today my husband flipped out on me and accused me of zooming in the TV screen ( and I never touch the remote). He screamed about it. I can't go out with friends ever. He has "anxiety", so we haven't been out on a date in 2 years. When I was pregnant, he introduced me to a group of friends by saying "I get to to F*ck the pregnant one". yeah, that was 2 years ago, but I feel so resentful and unloved....and I'm not loving in return. I love him, but not in a passionate way, although sometimes I hate him. His temper is horrible and I'm always bored, I have no sex drive, I'm 24 and attractive. It just sucks. Is this what married life is...watching ESPN, cleaning, taking care of a kid, and finding excuses to not have sex. I think if I would leave I would regret it, he's a good catch, I just feel lonely and emotionally drained. do all ppl get this way.
    13 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago