• Is it normal that my boyfriend doesn’t let me wear short skirts?

    Best answer: There is a big difference between "doesn't want me to" or Doesn't let me". If he is ASKING you to PLEASE not wear those things, then he is concerned about your appearance and how others might perceive you when you dress that way. (He doesn't want other guys looking up your skirts.) If... show more
    Best answer: There is a big difference between "doesn't want me to" or Doesn't let me".

    If he is ASKING you to PLEASE not wear those things, then he is concerned about your appearance and how others might perceive you when you dress that way. (He doesn't want other guys looking up your skirts.)

    If his is TELLING you to NOT wear those things, then he is manipulating you. Guys like this start out by telling their girl friends not to do small things. Like "don't wear that skirt, I don't like it". As time goes on, they add more things to the "don't do it" list until you have a father instead of a boyfriend. Guys like this will also do everything they can to keep you away from your friends. If you stay with them long enough, they will even keep you away from your family. They will make sure they have total control of every aspect of your life.

    Anytime you start a sentence with "he doesn't let me", then you are in a bad relationship. Relationships must be a compromise and should never be one partner telling the other one things they can't do.
    85 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • My dad watches porn?

    Ok I know this might sound like a stupid thing to ask but I just found it today and I just feel really weird, like kind of uncomfortable? And I just can't seem to get over it. My dad asked me to buy something for him on his computer. While I was at it, I wanted to look and see if any of my old stories that I... show more
    Ok I know this might sound like a stupid thing to ask but I just found it today and I just feel really weird, like kind of uncomfortable? And I just can't seem to get over it. My dad asked me to buy something for him on his computer. While I was at it, I wanted to look and see if any of my old stories that I used to write were still saved. Instead, i just came across what looked like porn videos in his documents? I'm being completely serious, I don't know why I suddenly feel so weird and sort of on edge? I mean obviously my dad isn't creepy or anything. It's just that I never imagined to find this kind of stuff...? Is this ok? He's married btw.
    22 answers · Family · 14 hours ago
  • Is this normal?

    I know there's a lot of fake questions like this on here, but I'm honestly scared and I don't know where else to ask. Ever since I turned 16, my dad constantly talks about my body and how beautiful I'm getting. He'll get offended or angry if i don't kiss or hug him goodbye or greet him. One... show more
    I know there's a lot of fake questions like this on here, but I'm honestly scared and I don't know where else to ask. Ever since I turned 16, my dad constantly talks about my body and how beautiful I'm getting. He'll get offended or angry if i don't kiss or hug him goodbye or greet him. One time he put money in the back pocket of my jeans, which I found weird because he could've just handed it to me. He also talks about how "mature" my body is getting and how it's "developing beautifully". He acts the same way towards my older sister and we both find it creepy, but I feel like he does it more towards me. Is this normal?
    33 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • Do you like girls?

    32 answers · Singles & Dating · 19 hours ago
  • My girlfriend lets me have sex with her whenever I want, is that normal?

    Best answer: She sounds like a really good, logical, and pragmatic girl. You may not find a better one. In 27 years, my late wife never had a "headache," or even admitted she wasn't "in the mood". My current GF says "Anytime! It takes so little effort, and it means so much to you"! Yeah, I... show more
    Best answer: She sounds like a really good, logical, and pragmatic girl. You may not find a better one. In 27 years, my late wife never had a "headache," or even admitted she wasn't "in the mood". My current GF says "Anytime! It takes so little effort, and it means so much to you"! Yeah, I think it's normal. Looks like others don't agree.
    31 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 day ago
  • Poll /Survey Could you ever Marry or live with someone that cant stand or live with Christmas ?

    No tree lights decoration inside or out side nothing ?
    No tree lights decoration inside or out side nothing ?
    72 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Is it cheating on my husband if i’ve performing oral sex on my best friend’s husband? We rarely have sex. I just give him oral?

    Best answer: cheating is all in the mind everything is legal until and unless u get caught...go live ur life
    Best answer: cheating is all in the mind everything is legal until and unless u get caught...go live ur life
    27 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 21 hours ago
  • Would you exchange numbers with a married guy who likes you?

    Okay the place where I work, there is guy who is like 8 years older than me. We are from different countries and follow different religion. He is very nice to me and calls me by my nickname and is fun to be around. We are very friendly with each other. We kind of work in different departments. He is married and has... show more
    Okay the place where I work, there is guy who is like 8 years older than me. We are from different countries and follow different religion. He is very nice to me and calls me by my nickname and is fun to be around. We are very friendly with each other. We kind of work in different departments. He is married and has 2 children. I see him as a good colleague. One day he said me if I am coming to an office party I said no he said then I am also not coming later he asked me about my religion and then said I know a lot about your religion. Next day we met in the hallway and he kind of said I like you I just said okay and laughed and went back to my work. He keeps on finding excuses to talk to me. He is funny always ask if I have a bf and when I say no, he says you are lying bcz you are too pretty to be single. He said me again he likes me the next day and then said why don't you believe me, I always treat it as a joke and laugh off. Now it's getting more everyday like he gives me flying kisses now and I seriously don't know how to behave now bcz I don't want to ruin the environment of my work place by making a fuss about it. And Idk why I still don't hate him or dislike him. And I just don't know if he is joking or what. I don't work on weekends and one I did and he said he was very happy cz I was working on weekend and he got to see me. I was off for 3 days and he said he will miss me and asked for my number so we can go for a coffee. He playfully touches me all the time.
    74 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • How do you live in a sexless marriage at just 36 years old?

    Wife just has a bunch of excuses or finds any little stupid thing for us not to be intimate. We can go anywhere from 4 to 7 weeks without any intimacy. She’s 41 and my just 36. This isn’t normal!!! Now if I cheat then it’s my fault but why would any woman put their husband in a position like this or drive them... show more
    Wife just has a bunch of excuses or finds any little stupid thing for us not to be intimate. We can go anywhere from 4 to 7 weeks without any intimacy. She’s 41 and my just 36. This isn’t normal!!! Now if I cheat then it’s my fault but why would any woman put their husband in a position like this or drive them elsewhere? Love fades and I feel my love for wife fading as I don’t think she’s just interested in me anymore.
    20 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 18 hours ago
  • What should I be doing in life at age 16?

    19 answers · Friends · 13 hours ago
  • Is a wife's use of "toys" for her self-gratification every bit as bad as her husband watching porn for his?

    isn't she cheating on her husband by not saving her desires for him?
    isn't she cheating on her husband by not saving her desires for him?
    28 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • My girlfriend wants me to finish inside her. Is it a trap?

    Best answer: It could be. Women have been known to do things like that. And then if you try to stand your ground, they will do everything they can to make you feel guilty about not being enough of a man to satisfy them and all sorts of garbage like that. and you'll probably end up giving in. Women are extremely... show more
    Best answer: It could be. Women have been known to do things like that. And then if you
    try to stand your ground, they will do everything they can to make you feel guilty about not being enough of a man to satisfy them and all sorts of garbage like that. and you'll probably end up giving in. Women are extremely manipulative. Just look what Eve did to Adam in the garden of Eden
    99 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • I ******* hate my parents?

    Ok I'm Haitian American and I'm 15 and my boyfriend is Dominican- American and he's 16. When my parents found out I was dating a Dominican they kicked me out in the streets, but my boyfriend's family took me in. My older brother who's 17 got two girls pregnant and my parents welcomed them in the... show more
    Ok I'm Haitian American and I'm 15 and my boyfriend is Dominican- American and he's 16. When my parents found out I was dating a Dominican they kicked me out in the streets, but my boyfriend's family took me in. My older brother who's 17 got two girls pregnant and my parents welcomed them in the house with open arms and is taking good care of them. I'm their own daughter and they kicked me out for dating , but my older brother got two girls pregnant and my parents let him and the two girls stay in the house. I'm so freaking pissed off
    50 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • I am having an affair and got engaged to my fiance' last night. Should I leave my wife now or wait until Christmas is over?

    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ? I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you. As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you... show more
    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ?

    I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you.

    As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you anyways so not much will be missed.
    27 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • What do you think of a mom who?

    Best answer: I think that is a wonderful Mom. She is teaching her children that when you are a part of something (a family and home) you have a responsibility to help take care of that; she is teaching them the value of resting both mind and body on a regular basis AND she is teaching them the value of being well read. That... show more
    Best answer: I think that is a wonderful Mom. She is teaching her children that when you are a part of something (a family and home) you have a responsibility to help take care of that; she is teaching them the value of resting both mind and body on a regular basis AND she is teaching them the value of being well read. That is one Terrific MOM! If you are her child, you are very lucky. She cares about you and about your future. That is a blessing not all children have.
    48 answers · Family · 4 days ago