• What to do my mom can't give me $180 to buy something I need?

    I'm going to college and my parents rarely provide me with anything. The only thing they provide is a house which we own and thats it. Every time I talk about buying or money my mom makes huge tantrum. My dad on other hand says no to everything. They refuse to get me insurance so I'm left with no health... show more
    I'm going to college and my parents rarely provide me with anything. The only thing they provide is a house which we own and thats it. Every time I talk about buying or money my mom makes huge tantrum. My dad on other hand says no to everything. They refuse to get me insurance so I'm left with no health insurance because they can't afford to pay for anything how can I get help for my needs
    10 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Why did my mom ruin my birthday?

    Today I turned 19 and the plan was for me to watch black panther with my friends, I met my friends at the mall since I took a lyft and they carpooled from school. After the movie I decided to get in the car with them to go back to school(they were going back to get into their own cars) and get my lyft their since... show more
    Today I turned 19 and the plan was for me to watch black panther with my friends, I met my friends at the mall since I took a lyft and they carpooled from school. After the movie I decided to get in the car with them to go back to school(they were going back to get into their own cars) and get my lyft their since it would be $6 cheaper, in the car we decided to go out to eat I of course asked my mom if it was ok and she said yes only to call me a minute later saying I was a problem start and sneaky because I apparently knew we were going to get food beforehand and decided not to ask her(wtf?) we ended up going to steak and shake and she told me that there couldn’t be any places open at this time(mind you this is a Thursday night down town where restaurants are open until midnight) she then proceeded to tell me I had to come home immediately. When I got home she said the whole situation was disrespectful and I asked why she was doing this and she said I deserved it for being sneaky. I literally asked for permission and she said it was fine. I’m transferring to a new school in the fall and will be out of the house, I understand I’m living in her house=her rules but she expects me to call and text her whenever I go somewhere at 19 so when I transfer what is she gonna expect? I’m taking 26 credit hours a semester and I’m in class 9-5 but I never get any slack smh
    11 answers · Family · 2 days ago
  • I don’t really want my girlfriend on birth control?

    I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years and i love her so much. This past Valentine’s Day while spending time with her she mentioned birth control. I asked her was she seeing another guy and she said “no !!” And that’s when i told her she doesn’t have to worry about me getting her pregnant . I don’t want... show more
    I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost two years and i love her so much. This past Valentine’s Day while spending time with her she mentioned birth control. I asked her was she seeing another guy and she said “no !!” And that’s when i told her she doesn’t have to worry about me getting her pregnant . I don’t want my girlfriend to get on birth control.im willing to wear a condom but she wants to get on birth control. She is afraid she will get pregnant but i have been pulling out of her for over a year and I’m respondsible enough to know not to *** inside of her. I’ve told her numerous times that if she got pregnant that she is moving in with me and we’re going to be a family but all she says is that if she gets pregnant she is going to move away and not tell anyone. I don’t want her to get pregnant and leave me. TL:DR: i don’t want her to take birth control because of a few side effects I’ve heard about. I will wear a condom before i let her get on BC.
    11 answers · Singles & Dating · 10 hours ago
  • Am I ungrateful for getting angry with my fiancé present?

    We never celebrate Valentine’s Day because we don’t believe in it. But this year we decided to celebrate it. We decided not too spend much on one and other as well. So what he brought me was chocolates artificial flowers in a vase and a card which didn’t even say anything in it. Which said to then my name. And then... show more
    We never celebrate Valentine’s Day because we don’t believe in it. But this year we decided to celebrate it. We decided not too spend much on one and other as well. So what he brought me was chocolates artificial flowers in a vase and a card which didn’t even say anything in it. Which said to then my name. And then at the bottom “lots of love” then his name. I got pissed off I don’t ask for much but he couldn’t of at least put some thought into the card. We been together for 4 years and we getting married now he didn’t even have anything to say in that card apart from that. Am I wrong for get upset? I just wanted a thoughtful card that would of made me feel special
    29 answers · Engagements & Weddings · 3 days ago
  • Was thinking about taking up modelling, my bf doesnt want me to? He called me an attention seeker and is now ignoring me?

    Best answer: You may well be attention-seeking....but thst is your choice, to which you are entitled.
    He is attempting to be controlling. That is a danger sign: will it happen in other areas?
    Best answer: You may well be attention-seeking....but thst is your choice, to which you are entitled.
    He is attempting to be controlling. That is a danger sign: will it happen in other areas?
    34 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I hate the car that my parents bought for me?

    I just turned 16 on February 10th and my parents got me a car for my birthday. They got me a 2009 Honda Accord. I know its not that old, but it has problems. When I drive it the car stops at random times, it's dangerous. And the window doesn't work. I can't even go through a drive thru because the... show more
    I just turned 16 on February 10th and my parents got me a car for my birthday. They got me a 2009 Honda Accord. I know its not that old, but it has problems. When I drive it the car stops at random times, it's dangerous. And the window doesn't work. I can't even go through a drive thru because the window won't go down. What should I do? How should I tell my parents that i hate it and that I want a new car?
    27 answers · Family · 6 hours ago
  • This ugly girl at my school likes me help?

    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    This ugly girl at my school told me that she likes me and asked me to go out with her, I told her that i would never go out with someone as ugly as her. She cried and ran away, but she still keeps looking at me?! how can i keep her away??
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • Boyfriend gets tired after sex?!?

    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how... show more
    We are both 18. I have never had an orgasm .. hard to do it on myself and hard for him to do it to me. With 1 round of sex he cums too fast... and then we just end and obviously I’m not satisfied. This one time I asked for 2 rounds and he was so tired that we had a couple of days without having sex because of how exhausted he was. Help?
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 hours ago
  • Every guy I hook up with is so rough with me?

    Is this normal? I haven't dated a lot of guys but every guy I've hooked up with has been so rough with me from the first time. I'm quite petite and I like being submissive but my friend has said this isn't normal so it's got me thinking. I don't think I've ever had sex that isn't... show more
    Is this normal? I haven't dated a lot of guys but every guy I've hooked up with has been so rough with me from the first time. I'm quite petite and I like being submissive but my friend has said this isn't normal so it's got me thinking. I don't think I've ever had sex that isn't rough. So he'll be spanking, choking, throwing me about and pinning me down roughly etc from the very first time...
    38 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • When does eye contact become sexual?

    Best answer: There's a certain "moral looking time" which is about 2 seconds before it starts to mean something. Longer than that could signal that someone is interested (or it could mean they are annoyed, like you just cut in line at the supermarket). When I was a teen, every girl would look away after about 1... show more
    Best answer: There's a certain "moral looking time" which is about 2 seconds before it starts to mean something. Longer than that could signal that someone is interested (or it could mean they are annoyed, like you just cut in line at the supermarket). When I was a teen, every girl would look away after about 1 second after making eye contact. Then there was one that didn't. She became my girlfriend, later.
    19 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago
  • I found out my sister & bf slept together before me?

    It was a week before we got together. My sister knew how much I liked him but I don't think the guy was aware. I'm so lost they were the only two I trust & they kept it from me for 4 months. As of yesterday we were in a serious relationship and said we loved each other but now I feel shattered. My... show more
    It was a week before we got together. My sister knew how much I liked him but I don't think the guy was aware. I'm so lost they were the only two I trust & they kept it from me for 4 months. As of yesterday we were in a serious relationship and said we loved each other but now I feel shattered. My bf and I saw each other every day and I saw my sister twice a week but now this is haunting me. They are both apologetic but it bothers me that they kept this from me, my sister said it meant nothing to her at the time but surely she knew it would've meant something to me :( What should I do.
    9 answers · Singles & Dating · 12 hours ago
  • Did my bf cheat?

    My bf must’ve sent it to me on accident but it was a picture of a girl in a bathtub no inappropriate parts but he said he screenshotted it to show me that a girl sent him it and he had it since yesterday he just forgot to tell me. Is it cheating?
    My bf must’ve sent it to me on accident but it was a picture of a girl in a bathtub no inappropriate parts but he said he screenshotted it to show me that a girl sent him it and he had it since yesterday he just forgot to tell me. Is it cheating?
    6 answers · Singles & Dating · 6 hours ago
  • Do black girls smell bad "down there?"?

    There's a hot black girl at my work who wants to bang me. I've been thinking about it, but I keep hearing that black girls don't take care of themselves down there if you know what I mean. I enjoy going down on girls, but I don't know if I want to go down on her if she smells like fish. Any white... show more
    There's a hot black girl at my work who wants to bang me. I've been thinking about it, but I keep hearing that black girls don't take care of themselves down there if you know what I mean. I enjoy going down on girls, but I don't know if I want to go down on her if she smells like fish. Any white guys or girls want to offer some feedback on this touchy subject?
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 hours ago
  • Is it wrong for me to want to date black girls?

    I'm white and I think black girls are more beautiful than white girls but people seem to think it's bad to look for a mate based on race. I'm just super attracted to black girls and want to date one
    I'm white and I think black girls are more beautiful than white girls but people seem to think it's bad to look for a mate based on race. I'm just super attracted to black girls and want to date one
    7 answers · Singles & Dating · 17 hours ago