Sex question - no blood first time and intense trembling?
Anyways, I was never given the sex talk (yay for uncaring parents) so I've been confused. I don't know if my hymen is still in contact. We lubed up and he penetrated me (it was painful oh my god) but i ended up on talk.
His entire penis entered me and there was no blood, does that mean I don't have a hymen (I am so sorry i am a poorly educated person when it comes to sex)? Also, why does it hurt so much? We tried a variety positions and it ached and stung even with a lot of lube. Will it go away soon the more we try?
Second, during foreplay he went down on me and I had some weird things happen to me.
- tingly feeling throughout body
- intense involuntary trembling in my legs (near the crotch area)
- intense muscle contractions and stiffness (I couldn't move my hand or arm... scary)
- my lips had shrunked in
What was happening? Should I be worried? Was it just because I was a little more nervous than usual (I didn't feel anxious or anything).
Thank you for reading and please no rude answers! It's super appreciated!