Its a myth. Being first time, both the partners are very excited and as a result, there is a possibility of haste and doing it fast. As a result, while the female is not fully aroused / wet, male tries to enter her, causing some discomfort to both of them. Before act of sex, it is always advised to have a good amount of FOREPLAY (touching each other, kissing on lips, neck, back and sensual parts of body, touching each others private parts etc.) A female and arouse her partner by wearing sensual innerwears, makeup, some scents etc and kissing her partner on lips, neck, touching and fondling with his penis etc. By doing all such things, both partners get aroused. Male's penis becomes hard and female's vagina becomes wet. She can very well feel the wetness inside. When a male is ready to enter female's vagina, she should be relaxed and spread her legs and keep her vaginal muscles relaxed to allow easy entry in her. Male should be slow and patient enough to have a slow entry in. You are virgin and it is suggested that you should use contraceptive (TODAY) which is a small capsule and is to be inserted inside vagina ten minutes before intercourse. The capsule is very soft and quickly glides inside female vagina and also acts as lubrication and makes sex easy and pleasurable. Man can use good quality condom. Condom is lubricated and he can easily enter female vagina without much efforts and saves both from any skin infection and un-wanted pregnancy.
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