These answers are hilarious.
But, seriously: i'm not into STDs or prostitution in order to pay for dinner.
I honestly think that any girl that has sex on the first date, is a slutt of the highest calibur.
I'm of the opinion that it shouldn't even take place on the 2nd, 3rd or 4th dates. LOL. It should be something that both decide is a good option after a while of being involved. (IF not waiting entirely; since most people nowadays don't wait until marriage).
I know that's old school, and not the most popular of opinions, but i'm just not into whoring myself out and collecting STDs like basball cards. Besides, IF you really think about it, it's kind of gross. You're basically sleeping with every person THAT person slept with ... and let's face it, some people are pretty damned nasty. I wouldn't want to share a city block with them let alone my bodily fluids.
Hot and passionate with multiple orgasms are good .... just not EVER on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th, 20th or 50th dates.
Lol. *whispers* see, it's the REALLY loving/liking them and waiting for it that makes it all of the things you've mentioned.
*grins* ..... but what do i know? I'm single and disease free and proud of it.
PS: And what's more, i would never have sex with a guy that has had A LOT of partners, no matter how much i liked or was into him. One or two, is normal. Even three is acceptable, (as most people have had several relationships) but i draw the line when the number starts pushing upwards. The more partners a guy has had is the less of a chance i would ever go on a date with him, let alone do him. LOL. Though i would never date a virgin either! (but that's just me!)
Mostly because i'm not one. Once you bite the apple, there's no going back. LOL. I try not to judge others, as i've made my own mistakes, but .... i DO have my standards.
*edit* warrenD brings up a good point. IF the pair have known eachother for a long time, then sex on the 1st date is of a very different concept then just meeting a random somebody. In THAT respect, it's not so unacceptable.
I wasn't in the mood to be funny! So i gave a serious answer!
· 1 decade ago