Boyfriend screams at me?

Valentine's Day was terrible. I cried a lot. My boyfriend was driving us to a dinner cruise that I paid for us to go on. He wanted me to run in an buy him cigarettes at Walgreens, and started counting out money while driving my car (which I still owe $26k on, and he's already had one accident in...it was the other person's fault, but he could have prevented it). The light turned red quickly and everyone started slamming on their brakes. I grunted and tensed up. It was just a short grunt, half a second.

He instantly started screaming at me, and saying that I was calling him a bad driver by making "those noises and freaking the *** out". He screamed and screamed for 5 minutes straight, and said he was thinking of turning around because he wasn't "dealing with my sh*t tonight" and he was "so tired of it." He gets furious if I say something like "hey babe the light's green" when hes texting someone at a red light or calmly say "watch out" when someone veers into our lane. I can't say one thing or make a single noise, or even grip the OMG handle without him screaming at me, and saying I'm accusing him of being a bad driver.

I said I want him to get some help for his anger and he said it's my fault and I "Make" him scream at me, because I know he doesn't like it and I do it anyway. He said if I know he doesnt' like it when I comment on his driving then I should stop doing it, and that if I know by now that it'll "make' him scream then it's my own fault if I get screamed at. He said "I'll get help for my anger when you get help for your mental issues" referring to me "freaking out" over "people braking 100 feet away."

He went in and bought his cigarettes, then came back out and got in the car and said "sorry" and changed the subject.

Been together for 2 years and 2 months. Live together. Unfortunately, this isn't uncommon.

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  • Okay he's overreacting. You didn't do anything wrong. He's crazy, thinking that you're the one with "issues" when clearly it's HIM that needs to get help. I think you should break up with him. I mean, you confronted him about the problem but he still didn't do anything about it.

    You deserve way better.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Leave him!! You seem SOOO sweet and he's just a manipulative *** hole trying to make you feel bad for his wrongs! Leave him immediately he doesn't deserve you.

    Please answer mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201402...

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  • 4 years ago

    This isn't that bad BUT I think you Should sit down and talks to him about it

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  • DelK
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    And you are with this turd, why? You pay for him to enjoy life and he yells at you? Get a grip on reality. You don't have to live like that.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Leave him now.

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  • 6 years ago

    Two words: drop him.

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  • Leave him.

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