Nope, people that believe they will do this or that differently then those who were in the situation did, are kidding themselves. Sick crap but if it is the only crap one knows, one goes along. We see it today in Afghanistan in many places. Women have no rights, are treated like crap, Blah, blah, blah. Yet many of them fight those who are fighting for them, so that they can have an education, have some sort of rights and crap.