Do guys really change when they say they will?

I tried to breakup with my boyfriend, and he told me I am just doubting myself and he knows I love him. I really do care for him but I found him too controlling, he doesn't like my friends, my occupation, the way I dress and my lifestyle. But since I threatened to breakup he said he is willing to accept all... show more I tried to breakup with my boyfriend, and he told me I am just doubting myself and he knows I love him. I really do care for him but I found him too controlling, he doesn't like my friends, my occupation, the way I dress and my lifestyle. But since I threatened to breakup he said he is willing to accept all those things because he truly loves me. I told him I am not ready for commitment right now and want to see whats out there but it hurts me so bad to hurt him and I can't get him off my mind. Please help I am very conflicted.
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