My life is in ruins at age of 33. How and where to start fixing it?

I don’t have friends (close ones). My job is uncomfortable, I hate my boss. I lost all my savings and got into a debt with some stupid decisions. I’ve been pursuing a hobby, that didn’t play out. No partner. My health is mediocre, I have autoimmune decease, that I have to keep in check at all times. I look... show more I don’t have friends (close ones). My job is uncomfortable, I hate my boss.
I lost all my savings and got into a debt with some stupid decisions.

I’ve been pursuing a hobby, that didn’t play out.

No partner.

My health is mediocre, I have autoimmune decease, that I have to keep in check at all times.
I look like ****, because of all the stress, my hair is partially grey.

My parents are narcissists, they don’t give a **** about me.

I am trying to make a plan how to get out of this whole....and can’t come up with nothing solid.
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