Ramadan Muslim men can have 4 wives is he’s wife ok with it ??????

Will you allow your husband to marry second wife and how would you feel about it. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him marry 4 wives he did it only for charity not because he wanted women he never did no matter how beautiful she is. He just want to help her as a charity. But these days of men did it for he’s sexual desire he’s not following the sunnah. He just want women that’s not charity lol

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  • 3 months ago

    Sex isn't a valid reason to do polygamy. The context of the verse is when society fear that the orphans wouldn't be treated with justice so in that case men can marry the mothers of those children. But even in that situation it's not recomended. Allah says "you will never be able to be just between women" (Quran 4:129)

    I wouldn't marry a man that thougth of marrying other women for sex or multiple children as this is a type of greed I cannot support. But it's never been a problem in my marriage because I didn't marry a man with those ideas.

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    200+ years ago women couldn’t provide for themselves, especially in the desert. Women had to marry men to provide for them and take care of them for safety. The way of life in the desert is harsh and unsafe. Nowadays most men do not marry 4 wives. It’s only wealthy gulf Arabs. Muhammad married 2 women for their looks. He is like every other men in some ways. The rest of his wives were middle aged women with children. He provided for them. Does not matter what White people think.

    • Mintee
      Lv 7
      3 months agoReport

      doesnt matter w hat white people think...... are you confused.. there are white people as m uslims.. some so white they make you look tanned.. that is a very racist answer...

  • 3 months ago

    Mohamed had 11 wives but only allowed his followers 4 and no woman has any right to complain within the pagan cult called islam

    @ Mintee i lived in Aden Bahrain UAE Malaysia Indonesia Kuaite and Saudi Arabia I obviously know more than you think or are you just trying to hide the truth?

    How is this for the Truth Qur'an, vol. 1, p. 305) Book page and Verse!

    And if you be apprehensive that you will not be able to do justice to the orphans, you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose. But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them, then marry only one wife, or marry those who have fallen in your possession. (Maududi, The Meaning of the Qur'an, vol. 1, p. 305)

    The key clauses are "you will not be able to do justice to the orphans" and "you may marry two or three or four women whom you choose." Maududi (d. 1979) is a respected traditional and conservative commentator on the Quran. So we should let him explain what they mean. He says that the clauses accomplished three things:

    First, in pre-Islamic Arabia, guardian men married the orphan girls under their care, so the Quran says that they should direct their attention to women other than the orphans.

    Second, in pre-Islamic days men used to marry a limitless number of women and grab the property of their orphan nephews and nieces to support their wives.

    Third, in pre-Islamic days, men could marry as many women as they wanted and "treat them cruelly and unjustly" with impunity. So the Quran limits the number to four, and only if the man could keep care of them all: "But if you apprehend that you might not be able to do justice to them."

    Maududi concludes that probably all three correctives were intended by this verse (vol. 1, pp. 306-07, note 4).

    Also, the clause "marry those who have fallen in your possession" means slave-girls who were captured in a war. Men may "marry" them because slaves do not incur very much expense, not as much as free women do. Maududi paraphrases the meaning of the clause: "If you need more than one [wife] but are afraid that you might not be able to do justice to your wives from among the free people, you may turn to slave girls because in that case you will be burdened with less responsibilities" (note 6). This is not surprising, since the slave-girl was sexual property (see Sura 4:24). This means that the limit of four wives is artificial. Men could have sex with as many women as they wanted from among their slaves.

    • armouror
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      4 weeks agoReport

      and i know Muslims can Lie to anyone as long as it is to the advantage of Islam and its causes

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    You can be charitable without marrying women.

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  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    He married women just for charity....pull the other one.

    he married a 6 yr old girl ...imagine Jesus behaving in that manner.

    • armouror
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      3 months agoReport

      Mohamed according to Aisha was a Paedophile

  • Pearl
    Lv 7
    3 months ago

    theyre probably used to all that

    • Mintee
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      3 months agoReport

      no, they are not all used to that.. in fact its rare.. I am an american married to a Saudi, live in Saudi many years.. its not common.. its a theory that all arab men marry tons of women.. not true

  • Anonymous
    3 months ago

    Middle East women are careless and weak and freaking cold

    South Asian are worse plus ugly

    Mintee Amal Clooney is UGLY LONG FACE DONKEY AND STIFF AND CLOONEY IS A HOMO IN A CLOSET

    And queen of Jordan is beautiful but I saw in other non Arab countries more beautiful women than her

    Arab and Muslim women are ugly that's just a fact

  • 3 months ago

    Will i allow my husband to take a second wife?

    Sure he can take a second wife after he’s divorced me

    • Sara3 months agoReport

      These days men they marry for sex sister

  • Jake
    Lv 6
    3 months ago

    Catholicism is the One True Faith and a person can know this with certainty by reciting the rosary each day with care.

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