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What are some things done in porn that women don't want to do in real life?

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  • 1 month ago

    most rather not have a dick in their asses... its a exit not a entrance... THATS FOR FAAAAgggotts and fudge packers and just plain nasty... 

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  • 1 month ago

    Lmao! I don't know how to explain it but in real life I can say it, they don't like it in the butt if you know what I mean it's stink and nasty. 

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  • 1 month ago

    To not be worried about having their own orgasim

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  • 1 month ago

    have sex...lol

    • moe1 month agoReport

      virg

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Getting fuсked up the a55.  No one in their right minds would want that.

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  • 1 month ago

    Use a non-Linux PC.

    • Richard
      Lv 6
      1 month agoReport

      lol

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  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Almost all of it.  One of the most upsetting things about porn is the day I noticed that the women's vulvas are almost never aroused.  They're lubed up to the hilt and probably use analgesic (that's painkilling) gel too, but they're not aroused.  They're doing a job and hopefully getting paid for it.

    You've got to understand that porn is like an action movie.  In action movies all guns make big noise and little car crashes make huge explosions.  Real life isn't like that.  Porn is the same to sex, but since it's visual it can't render the most important sensation - touch, so it tries to balance the loss of the most important part with shrieking and close up shots and here arises all the problems.

    First of all foreplay is important to women.  There might be days where you're so excited thinking about your sweetheart that all the foreplay is well advanced through the power of imagination and all you want is a savage quickie.  That's the exception though.  For some women the stuff guys call foreplay is the main event.  I hate to tell you but the inside of the vagina is about as sensitive as your back, ie not very.  So if you skip the foreplay penetrative sex goes from something which can feel really great to something unpleasant and boring, really boring.

    Next up, porn is shot to be visual.  That means above all that the angles are chosen for how well they can be filmed.  What they do in porn tells you nothing at all about what feels good to an individual woman and men. People have preferences and sometimes very individual erogenous zones.  I'm willing to bet you've not even found all of yours yet.  You'll probably have more than one partner in your life so you'll learn that body fit and not just the length of member has a lot to do with how good sex can be.  Some positions will be on fire with one partner and a total dud with another.  Your best move for one woman will be the thing that makes sure she dumps you (see weirdo who tried to shove his tongue up my nostrils and was amazed that didn't make me come because it was in some tantra book).

    Things like "surprise choking" is off the cards.  Breath play is serious stuff and not to be jumped into - and neither is anal.  Anal can be heaven or hell but not only is it painful as it's done in porn (there's prep to be done), there's nothing in it for most women even when done with great care, and it isn't done with prep and care because young women are increasing presenting for treatment for anal fissures or even prolapse.  The latter is a serious condition requiring surgery.  It's not to be messed with lightly, anyone who pulls the "wrong hole accidentally" routine is not only dumped but blacklisted far and wide in my book.

    Anything S&M requires discussion in advance.  It's not something to jump into and assume women want.  That's not regret sex, that's rape.  See also surprise inviting your friend/sports team to join in.

    Oh, most women hate "facials."  Unless she asks for it don't do it.  Bjs?  Can be lots of fun but women don't get off on giving them, any pleasure they derive is from giving pleasure and for that to happen they have to be really into you.  Most women HATE having their head in any way restrained and if you pat her head like a dog she will feel withering contempt for you.

    Don't expect the noises you hear in porn.  If you go back to older porn (what, you don't think women might have a carefully curated library?) the pitch was lower, almost all throaty moans.  That's not obligatory (housemates to consider and stuff) but is more true to life and sounds hot.  In so much of the porn now the women shriek (hopefully always acting) with a sonic roughness indistinguishable to pain.  It's horrible, really horrible and a dead turn off.

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  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    Position themselves in ways where everything is well lit and visible to the camera. Bath themselves in ejaculate like it's creating a second climax. Perform to the camera with excessive grunts and moans. There are of course some who learned everything they know about "sex" from adult movies and those might act that way. But having been on several adult film sets it's about the least sexy environment you're likely to see. The process of making these films looks and feels more like surgery than titillation.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Lesbian porn.    .

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  • 1 month ago

    probably everything thats done in porn

    • Kenneth1 month agoReport

      Are you saying women don't want sex at all? 

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