Anonymous asked in Social ScienceGender Studies · 1 month ago

Is it a bad thing if a girl looks for a guy ?

Let's say a girl has a crush on a guy who is older than her (4 years) and is about to sail away due to work. He always cared about her but they never kissed or anything, more like just friendship. She runs to his place before he leaves, under the rain, the guy opens the door and lets her in, gives her dry clothes to change in his room, makes her tea and they talk. At some point the girl starts crying cause she doesn't want him to go away. Will the guy think bad of her for coming to look for him?

3 Answers

  • Foofa
    Lv 7
    1 month ago

    If he has to travel for work and some person he considers merely a friend is staging such a dramatic scene and trying to interfere with his need to make a living, probably. 

  • 1 month ago

    he might admire her for having the skills to communicate her desire for him. But 4 years is a bit of an age gap depending on what part of your life you are in so he might just be wanting to focus on getting his life situated at the moment. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    This sounds like a sad book or a movie. 

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