Anonymous asked in Social ScienceDream Interpretation · 2 months ago

Sex dream about my friend?

Last night I dreamt that my friend and I had sex. I’ve had sex dreams before, but none about him. I don’t think of him like that, especially because I’m a Lesbian. 

What could a dream like this mean?

12 Answers

  • Jim
    Lv 7
    2 weeks ago

    Forget the 'label' of lesbian. All of us are on a spectrum for sexuality.

    Apparently there is an undercurrent of desire in this one person.

  • 4 weeks ago

    To dream about sex refers to the integration and merging of contrasting aspects of yourself. It represents psychological completion. You need to be more receptive and incorporate aspects of your dream sex partner into your own character. Consider the nature of the love-making. Was it passionate? Was it slow? Was it wild? The sex act parallels aspect of yourself that you wish to express. A more direct interpretation of the dream may be your libido's way of telling you that it has been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love. If you are looking for a place to have sex, then the dream may be analogous to your search for intimacy and closeness. You want to rekindle some relationship. If you dream of having sex in a public place, then the dream implies that others are talking about your private relationship.

    To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually. Perhaps you need to bring the same sense of adventure into your existing relationship.

    To dream that you are having sex with an ex or someone who is not your current mate denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself and are feeling a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. If you are approaching your wedding date, then is not uncommon to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than your intended spouse. This may be due to the intensity of the sexual passion with your fiancé. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.

    To dream that you are having sex with a stranger represents uncertainty about what is ahead. Alternatively, the dream allows you to experiment freely without having any hang ups, emotional baggage or preconceived notions associated with a person you would know. In such a scenario, you are able to let loose and express your desires, passions and emotions. In particular, if you dream of having sex with multiple partners at the same time, then it indicates that you are feeling detached in your personal relationship. You feel that sex is just an act devoid of any emotion or passion. Perhaps your sex life has become too automated.

    If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, then it represents an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side. The dream does not necessarily imply homosexual desire.

    To dream that you are having sex with a celebrity indicates your drive to be successful. You are striving for recognition. Consider what movies you associate this celebrity with for clues as to where and what you want to achieve success in.

    To see your parents having sex in your dream indicate that you are seeing similar aspects between their relationship and your current relationship. Most of us cringe at the thought of our parents having sex, so this dream imagery is really trying to get your attention. Consider your parents' real life relationship together and what you can learn from it.

    To dream that you are the opposite sex suggests that you need to incorporate certain qualities of the opposite sex. Ask yourself how do you feel being a man or a woman? In what ways can you incorporate those feelings into your waking life.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 month ago

    It means you was sleeping.

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    You always think about sex. You are very sexually active.

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  • 2 months ago

    its possible you guys really click...really understand one another  a huge connection. Sex is a huge connection....

    It could be he has a secret crush on you and you saw into it

    this is an interesting question

  • 2 months ago

    honestly it's probably just, put simply, your brain more or less messing with you. think of it like less harmful intrusive thoughts, the concept probably occurred to you in passing at some point, even if you didn't register it, and your brain latched onto it. if you are having serious doubts about your identity than it wouldnt hurt to examine it more closely, but if this is an isolated incident and you have no concerns than it's probably nothing.

    also- this is a long shot because i don't know anything about the relationship, but if you knew him before you discovered your identity (you can just disregard this if you didn't) it could be residual feelings from then, essentially leftover comphet that your brain is using up. again, a long shot, but maybe it's helpful. not sure.

  • 2 months ago

    Dreams are never literal. Sex is a representation of personal closeness. I would guess that there's something that you really value in him that you don't want to lose.

  • 2 months ago

    Did you enjoy that sex maybe your subconscious mind is trying to tell you , you are bi sexual and u should give urself a chance (that’s only if u enjoyed it during the dream and felt okay about it when u woke up) if that’s not the case then it means you really trust your best friend and you both r so loyal to each other and it’s really healthy to keep him in ur life, third scenario maybe u felt sometimes that ur best friend secretly has feelings for you , but becoz u r lesbian and he knows it’s stopping him so ur mind is just reminding u of how he feels 

  • 2 months ago

    It could mean that you go to bat for both teams - lucky you. 

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    It means you had a dream about having sex with your friend. Please don't have sex with him irl, he doesn't deserve lesbian women who overthink about wet dreams.

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