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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 2 months ago

What to do when friends stop contacting you all of sudden?

My friends with whom I used to chat daily ignore my messages and they have stopped contacting me. How do I deal with this?

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  • 2 months ago

    Call one of them on a private number and ask them why you’re being ignored 

  • 2 months ago

    Ask them why once and ONLY ONCE. 

  • 2 months ago

    Sorry about your pain. I would put in the effort to find some real friends. The best way to do this is to look someone who is a strong person who seems to need a friend.

    A real friend:

    • allows their friend to be themselves, really listens to their friend, and doesn’t share what’s been said

    • can be trusted, supports and helps you, treats you with respect, sticks with you

    • comes and talks with you as soon as possible when there’s a problem in the friendship

    • never encourages you to make a bad choice

    • encourages you to make a good choice - even when weak people are encouraging you to make a bad choice

    • tells you what you need to hear even though you don’t want to hear it

    • is willing to forgive you when you mess up

    • understands that friendships change and can accept those changes after talking it out

    A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money).

    Hope this helps!

    Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
  • Raja
    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    It is very strange why your friends ignored you all of a sudden. All what you can do is arrange a friend  known to you as well as to them talk to them and find out what exactly went wrong .If that fails there is nothing that you can do simply ignore them .You can always find out new friends. This type of friends are worst than enemies.

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  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    make new friends...................

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Looks like they were not really your friends. You will find new friends.

  • 2 months ago

    Embrace change. Rejection hurts anyone, but as you grow you will learn that people grow apart, change, and sometimes lose the connection that drew them together. This is part of life and instead of looking at it as a negative, allow yourself to feel the loss, then look forward to who is coming into your life next. Certainly, with this opening, this makes room for someone you connect better with who is more fun, relates to you more, and accepts you as you are. Always, look forward. Life is full of strife. Rejection hurts, yes. However, sometimes things have nothing to do with us and everything to do with how that person feels about themselves when with us or issues they are having that have again, nothing to do with us. One thing we never do is chase. We never attempt to remind someone how awesome we are. We never beg. So, do not keep reaching out. Relationships are reciprocal. She how to reach you. People make time for what they want, no matter how busy they are. So, embrace change and accept it as a part of life. This will not be the last ending, but its how we view the ending and how we move forward that determines our own well being and we are important too!

  • 2 months ago

    they are probably distancing themselves from you,so time to find new friends..

  • 2 months ago

    You deal with it by recognizing that they're not your friends, and you find new, better friends.

  • Anonymous
    2 months ago

    Realize that they have lives and people and things that are more of a priority than you and don't take it personally. Unless you have done something specifically to offend all of them ( which I'm sure you would have mentioned, right?) it must be that they are just too busy to get involved in a conversation with you at this time.

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